¿WHY DO OPEN RELATIONSHIPS LEAVE SUCH A BAD TASTE IN MOUTHS OF GAY MEN?

Can you love someone but fuck another guy? The answers to  such a question would be mixed, with some calling gay men in open relationships greedy and selfish while others will say it’s up to people in relationships to define what their relationships are. Whether you think being in open to open relationships comes with…

LIL NAS X LEADS QUEER ARTISTS @ GRAMMYS

He came with pink leather and left with gold hardware! Out gay rapper Lil Nas X, sporting a pink western-inspired Versace outfit complete with a harness, snagged two Grammy awards on January 26 as he continued to ride the wave of his hit debut song “Old Town Road.” The 20-year-old artist and his sidekick Billy…

LETTING YOUR GAY LIFE UNFOLD…

Present time can be hard, but life unfolds as it will and the universe will wait as we make our way into the unknown. Our lives are guided by natural rhythms that are particular to each of us and cannot be altered by force of will alone. Life itself is a journey made up of…

¿WHAT CAN YOU LET OF RIGHT NOW WITHOUT LOSING A THING?

Honestly, there’s so much you can let go of in life without losing a thing.  It’s called growth. Letting go of old ideals makes way for new opportunities. Letting go of what isn’t working makes way for what will. When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it’s time…

RuPAUL’S DRAG RACE UNVEILS SEASON 12 CAST & PREMIERE DATE

RuPaul’s Drag Race has Ru-vealed the cast of its new season. The VH1 reality drag competition will feature Aiden Zhane, Brita, Crystal Methyd, Dahlia Sin, Gigi Goode, Heidi N Closet, Jackie Cox, Jaida Essence Hall, Jan, Nicky Doll, Rock M. Sakura, Sherry Pie, and Widow Von’Du on season 12.  The Emmy-winning series will premiere Friday, February 28th at 8:00 p.m. Eastern and Pacific on VH1; RuPaul’s Drag Race: Untucked, the behind-the-scenes of…

PLACING GAY MEN ON PEDESTALS…

When you put other gay men on pedestals, you are giving away your power and saying you are not good enough. When we fall in love with someone or make a new friend, we sometimes see that person in a glowing light. Their good qualities dominate the foreground of our perception and their negative qualities….

KNICK’S PRIDE NIGHT IS A PERSONAL AFFAIR FOR REGGIE BULLOCK

It was a rare sight to see — at least in NBA circles — when Reggie Bullock of the New York Knicks emerged from the team locker room on Pride Night and walked on the court at Madison Square Garden with Rainbow sneakers and Rainbow-dyed streaks in his hair. But it was by no means…