SUMMER SEX RECIPE…

The sex we have in the summer months are as varied as we are. It comes in many shapes and sizes, from a weekend quickie to something long and indulgent. It can be hot and exotic, or quiet and chilled. It makes some of us search for more, while others are relaxed and laid-back. Nonetheless,…

¿IS IT A STRUGGLE FOR YOU TO BE FAITHFUL?

Has a boyfriend ever cheated on you? Have you ever cheated? If either answer (or both) is “yes” then you’re in the majority. Do you find it hard to stay faithful and commit to a monogamous relationship? What does ‘infidelity’ even mean? What do you considered ‘cheating’? 

CALLS FOR INVESTIGATION INTO DEATH OF ASHLEY MOORE, BLACK TRANS WOMAN

Activists and community members are calling for an investigation into the death of Ashley Moore. Though her body was found in April, few details are available about the death. Moore’s mother, Starlet Carbin, said in a recent interview that she only found out about the death through Facebook, and has called statements by police into…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: FATAL FEMALE FLIRTATION…

As a gay man, have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell her outright, “sorry, I  play for the same team if you know what I mean.” Anyway, I’m asking because it happened to me. It got really awkward…

DEEPER MEANING…LETTING GO OF UNDERSTANDING IN THE COMMUNITY

It is not always for us to know, the deeper meaning of everything that occurs in our life. All of us who seek to be connected and aware regard our experiences as teachers, and we try to discern what lessons we are learning from the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes the lesson is…

THE MYSTERY OF LOVE…

Love is still a bit of a mystery, but we keep getting closer to figuring out its oddball intricacies. Sure, it’s based on an evolutionary need to pair up and spread our genes, and our hormones are responsible for lots of the craziness, but that doesn’t explain all the volatility and heartbreak that goes along…

GAY MEN & BUTT IMPLANTS

If you are like a lot of gay men, you probably want to have a ass that looks as close to a bubble butt as possible. Who doesn’t want to have a hot looking rear end? This major trend that has emerged in the last few years is the idealization of two melons like humps…