GET TO KNOW YOUR REAL PARTNER

How often do you hear of or meet persons that they split from their significant other because of this or that? The first thing that is said goes like this, “I guess I didn’t really know my partner after all.” You might ask, “How could that be?” How could you have an intimate relationship with…

GATHERING INTELLIGENCE

We human beings have many ways of knowing what we need to know in order to get through our lives. One way of knowing things is to engage in a course of study in an academic environment. Another way of knowing things is simply to go through the experiences that come our way, making a…

ALL WE GOT

Love us or hate us, however, you can’t leave us, Once you are gay, you will always be gay, tough You may marry, have a girl, use a female to date It’s your right to like yourself or us, just don’t hate We have some intelligent & common-sense men And we have some fools, find…

THE IN BETWEEN

I followed the script, took my time and waited for him…now that he is here I have to learn to LOVE him in THE IN BETWEEN… I am safe and secure with who I am and my relationship with him. I feel that we are beyond the anxieties of wondering if we want to be…

…ON THE EDGE

In the dating community today, we know that there are a number of GAY MEN that have trust issues, insecurities, poor self-body image, low self-esteem. These problems are a result of unhealthy relationships and not dealing with their internal struggles of being hurt as a child and not being truly loved and appreciated by adults…

WHEN YOU GROW UP

There comes a time when a man emerges out of the carcass of boyhood and takes that ever important first step into adulthood. This rite of passage is VERY significant in his life because that is the moment he takes responsibility for his THOUGHTS, WORDS & DEEDS. Now what happens when this young mans grows…

¿GOT THERAPY?

As I sit and write this entry, I realize that what I am going to say will bring up suppressed emotions. However, that is not my intention, nor am I being insensitive to what others have been through in life. Moreover, I know that what I am about to say exists in both the over-all…

PATERNAL INSTINCT

A man once asked me what makes me think I am so special that my genes have to be passed on OR left on this planet? I NEVER gave any credence to his question but it did make me think about becoming a father; and as of late that thought has been growing more AND…

YES, GAY MEN, THEY DO EXIST…

This entry is for those GAY men out there that feels deep within themselves that LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS don’t exist when it comes to the HOMOSEXAUL crowd. Nonetheless, I am of the opinion that NO matter how hard we try, there is NO escaping the need to be with someone special for the long haul….