¿HOW SOON IS TOO SOON?

As many of you may not know, I was planning on getting married in lessthan month (October 25, 2008 to beprecise), but due to situationsbeyond our control we decided to put it on hold. This day I have foreseen foras long as I can remember and it saddens me that it won’t happen. But as…

¿WHY ARE WOMEN LESBIAN?

As a gay man I have come across other gay men that asked WHY WOULD A WOMAN BE A LESBIAN? And of course I was dumb founded as I am NOT a lesbian and found it quite peculiar AND interesting to say the least. If you think about it from a typical point of view,…

BECAUSE I BELIEVE…

I Believe… That just because two people argue, It doesn’t mean theydon’t love each other. And just because theydon’t argue, It doesn’t mean they dolove each other.  I Believe… That we don’t have tochange friends if We understand thatfriends change. I Believe… That no matter how gooda friend is, They’re going to hurt youevery once…

THEY SEE ME COMING…

Last evening I decided to go and get some much needed cardio; and on my way I saw two HOMOPHOBIC men from my past. One was a former manager of mine and the other was a trainer @ the gym I use to attend. Both seemed shocked to see me AND I could tell that…

¿A MAN’S MONOGAMOUS TENDENCIES?

A recent study released by Hasse Walum at the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm, Sweden seems to think it will be possible in the near future. The study took more than five hundred Swedish men and women in a long term relationship (defined as more than five years together) and studied a specific DNA string that…

NEW BEGINNINGS…

This day marks the beginning of so many things in my life; a life that so many times felt that it was placed on hold. I find life INTERESTING when events fit together PERFECTLY in my life. I’ve been without a job for about 2 months and needless to say things have been bit difficult….

9/11

I REMEMBER… If I Knew If I knew it would be the last time That I’d see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly And pray the Lord, your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time That I see you walk out the door, I would give…

TAKING OUR TURN TO GIVE…

When we see a person in need, we may want to give them something as a way of helping them, but if we give without taking the time to see who they really are, honoring that most of all, our gift is nowhere near as powerful as it could be. We may want to give…

WHEN A MAN…

This blog entry was INSPIRED by the many men that I’ve chat with that say that there are NO available good men out there. So many of us are so far off course when it comes to knowing what we want AND how to navigate in this world that we MISS the most obvious thing…