¿WHO WILL SHED A TEAR?

In the best of all possible worlds Where love N’ life twirls Is a space beyond this place Where haste and waste And contradictions contradict And everything left behind tries to fit Because opposites just sit I often wonder, that’s it? They often say ‘perfection’ is not an accident But was ‘perfection’ HIS intent? I…

¡HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!

¡HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY MY FELLOW FRIENDS, BLOGGERS N’ READERS IN THE RED, WHITE N’ BLUE!

30 DAYS TO A BETTER MAN DAY 30: GET A STRAIGHT RAZOR SHAVE

At last! We’ve finally made it to the last day of the 30 Days to a Better Man Challenge. It’s been a tough 30 days. Hopefully, the tasks we came up with helped you stretch, grow, and become a better man. Today’s final task will both complete this process and reward your efforts during the…

30 DAYS TO A BETTER MAN DAY 29: CONQUER A FEAR

Fear can be a good thing.  It’s a biological instinct that prevents us from doing stupid things that might kill us. For example, fear kicks in with good reason when we see a slithering snake or look over the edge of a cliff. Unfortunately, fear is not always rational and not always healthy. Thus, our…

30 DAYS TO A BETTER MAN DAY 26: TAKE THE MARINE CORP FITNESS TEST

During the 30 Days to a Better Man project, we’ve been doing a lot exercises for our mind and character, but it’s equally important to exercise our bodies. A man’s health is his most important asset. If you suffer from chronic health problems, it can take a toll on your job, on your bank account,…

30 DAYS TO A BETTER MAN DAY 25: START A DEBT REDUCTION PLAN

Since I’ve graduated law school, I’ve been taking a look at the debt Kate and I have accumulated during our time in school. And it isn’t pretty. I hate debt.  I hate the feeling of owing another person money. I hate thinking, “Oh good, I have x amount in savings!” And then realizing that when I…

IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT THAT YOU ARE GAY

This is a segment of my blog that I’ve been bad in keeping up with and for that I am sorry. I’ve found many entries out there that are worth re-blogging and I’ve kept them waiting for the right time to put them out there. But when is the ‘right’ time? If I am hit…

30 DAYS TO A BETTER MAN DAY 24: PLAY!

When you think fondly about your boyhood days, you probably think about the time you spent playing. While we now associate playing with toys, your best memories probably don’t involve plastic crap at all. You likely think about catching fireflies, building dirt ramps for your bike, playing capture the flag, having dirt clod fights, playing…