GAY RELATIONSHIPS: GETTING WHAT YOU WANT IN BED

“Oh, baby, you’re the best!” In our fantasies, we’re always in bed with a guy who knows just how to push our buttons. He’s neither too rough nor too cautious. He knows all our hot spots.Maybe he even shows us some nerve endings we didn’t know we had. He knows just what to do. It’s as…

DID YOU GET GAY MARRIED IN NYC?

Gay couples have taken marriage vows for the first time in New York this past Sunday, as the legalisation of same-sex marriage officially came into force in the Empire State. More than 800 couples are expected to have married after the first 24 hours, with many opting to marry at the very first opportunity, including…

SECRETS…

We’re only as sick as oursecrets. Why do I LOVEthe sound of that? Maybe because I think it would make a REAL good message for a graphict-shirt. But alas, I digress and with that in mind I’d like to engage in alittle blog psychoanalysis and reveal one of my deepest, darkest secrets. There’vebeen times when…

RIDDING YOURSELF OF TOXIC GAY FRIENDS

People like to surround themselves with fun friends—the guys and gals who can keep our spirits high in good times and support us when we’re down. Unfortunately, some of us are so desperate to feel popular, or to simply feel like we have friends, that we invite toxic people into our lives. This can be…

MY SOUL’S JOURNEY

To let go of the fear and anger which imprisons my heart,To relinquish all childish expectations and live joyfully in the world as it is not as I wish or imagine it to be,To be free of the always craven and ever-craving ego,To be released from the endless hungers of the body,To see God in others, To…

RACISM…HOMOPHOBIA…

¿WHICH DO YOU PREFER? YOU CAN ONLY HAVE ONE!  SORRY THAT’S HOW IT IS SOMETIMES…

THE ART OF CHANGE

This month on IN THE LIFE, the intersection of art and social change. Four stories honoring how art has inspired the LGBT Movement and its allies, in the fight for full equality. SOURCE: IN THE LIFE

A MEDITATION ON MOURNING – I LOVE THIS

When I die give what’s left of me away to children and old men who want to die. And if you need to cry, cry for your brother walking the street beside you. and when you need me, put your arm around anyone and give them what you need to give me. I want to…