SOUL CONTRACTS PART I

When welook at relationships of any kind that others are engaged in and we areconsumed with a thought like— “How in the name of all that is holy andsacred, can it be that THOSE two people can possibly be friends/lovers/significant others/life partners/businesspartners” etc. Well, here is the answer: You (or me), as the likelyjudging, external…

GAY PRIDE PARADES & FESTIVAL – SEPTEMBER 22 2012 – SEPTEMBER 30 2012 GUIDE

Here’s the weekly Prideevents list for September 22, 2012- September 30, 2012. Find your city and markthe date down. All cities should have active links to each Pride’s website formore info. KANSAS Wichita, Kan. – Wichita Pride Festival – September 29-30, 2012http://www.wichitapride.org/ SOUTHCAROLINA Spartanburg, S.C. – Upstate Pride – September 22, 2012http://www.upstatepridesc.org/ VERMONT Burlington, VT…

G.L.B.T. THEMED MOVIE: PUNKS

SYNOPSIS: Punks isa 2001 film produced by Babyface, directed by Patrik-Ian Polk andstarring Rockmond Dunbar, Seth Gilliam, Renoly Santiago, Jazzmun,and Dwight Ewell. The film follows the trials andtribulations of a group of gay African American friends.While black gay life is explored in the film,universal aspects of friendship plays at the plot’s forefront. The film’sthemes were later used for the 2005 LOGO cabletelevision series Noah’s Arc.REVIEW: This film Patrik-Ian Polk’s first film, is…

MONDAY MUSICAL MOTIVATION: TOO CLOSE

TooClose” by Alex Clare is currently (week 38, 2012) in the HOT100 Billboardcharts at position 10. Too Close lyrics by Alex Clare. You know I’mnot one to break promises,I don’t want to hurt you but I need to breathe.At the end of it all, you’re still my best friend,But there’s something inside that I need torelease.Which…

I HAVE NO ONE TO CRITICIZE…

I have no one to criticize andno thing, not even me. For criticism blocks the flow of love, it is gratitudethat pours through me like a flood.

¡GET OUT OF YOUR DATING COMFORT-ZONE!

We’ve all heard that simplistic definition of insanity.  Thatit’s “doing the same thing over and overand expecting different results.” And the lunacy is especiallyridiculous when those repetitive results are damaging. So while we mayuse that rule at work or in the home, whydon’t we apply that philosophy to the men that we date? Manyof us have friends…

¿IS DATING AN EX EVER A GOOD IDEA?

I am veryconfused about a situation with my ex. We dated for about 9 months and livedtogether in the same apartment. Toward the end of our relationship he felttrapped and tied down so he started looking to end the relationship. We talkedto see if we could work things out but it only got worse. He…

9/11

We shall never forgetWe shall keep this day,We shall keep the events and the tearsIn our minds, our memory and our heartsand take them with us as we carry on.