THE SEVENTH GAY OF X-MAS {ACCEPT THE PAST}

Along the same lines of accepting change is also learning to accept the past.  What is done is done.  Nothing you can do now will ever change the past. It’s part of history.  The only thing you can do is learn from the experience and move on, push forward.  Forgive and move forward. If you…

THE SIXTH GAY OF X-MAS {ACCEPT CHANGE}

Part of pushing through tough times is all about accepting change.  Nothing in life is forever.  Things are constantly changing. We age every day, the seasons change every 3 months.  It’s part of life.  The sooner you can accept that change happens, the sooner you can begin to be the best you possible.

THE FIFTH GAY OF X-MAS {PUSH THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES}

You will fail. You will struggle. Life will be hard sometimes.  But you have to keep pushing through. This builds character.  When you push through a hard time, the next hard time you encounter will be easier to get through.  Why? Because you proved to yourself that you can get through anything.  That belief is a…

THE FOURTH GAY OF X-MAS {DEAL WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS & EMOTIONS}

You will always have critics, including yourself. You need to learn to deal with any negative thoughts and emotions you have.  At first, you may find this difficult to do. But over time, controlling your thoughts will become easier.  Understand that negative thoughts will always be with us. They create a problem when we allow…

SOULMATES & THE LIE OF SEPARATENESS…

Soulmate relationships are here to show humanity the lie of their separateness, and to shine light upon the lies that are told to support that division; for there is a certain vibration of truth between two soulmates that makes the lies too painful to ignore.  The truth of who each is to the other is…

THE THIRD GAY OF X-MAS {CREATE A MISSION STATEMENT}

This is my favorite of the self improvement tips. You need to know who you are and what you stand for. In other words, you need to create a personal mission statement. Don’t mull over creating the perfect mission statement here. Just come up with something that identifies who you are and what you are…

THE SECOND GAY OF X-MAS {ACCEPT YOUR FAILURES}

Newsflash: you are going to fail. You are going to fail many times in life. Failing is OK. In fact, you should embrace failure. When you stretch beyond your comfort zone, you are growing as a person. It is only natural that you will fail. Don’t fall for the lie that failing is bad. Think…

THE FIRST GAY OF X-MAS {LOVE YOURSELF}

The first self-improvement tip is learning to love yourself. Unfortunately for many, this is easier said than done. You have to learn to accept who you are and that you are beautiful just the way you are. You’re not supposed to look like Brad Pitt or sing like Adele. You are supposed to simply be…

¡HAPPY X-MAS DAY!

Wishing you a Happy X-mas Day, filled with family, friends, food & fun!