THE 7 PEOPLE YOU MEET IN THE GYM

In the pantheon of resolutions, there is one that dwarfs the rest: hitting the gym. But starting a gym membership can be intimidating, especially if you’re worried about fitting into the culture. Luckily this cheat sheet is here to introduce you to the people you’ll meet if you decide to brave the gym this January….

WHY YOU NEED TO BECOME THE MAN OF YOU OWN DREAMS

You’ll never be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself first. Our dreams seem to be on an invisible axis, tilting to and fro until they land in a place closest to our hearts. Sometimes we force it; other times we’re afraid it’ll land somewhere dark so we’ll try and spin forever….

TOPS KNOW YOUR D!@K

When you think about topping, do you give it much thought? Do you mostly I think, “I’m horny…I need to fuck something” and generally the mindset is to find an ass that catches your attention…get in, unload and get out? But do you know how to effectively make him beg for more? There’s nothing more…

3 REASONS YOU ARE ATTRACTING THE WRONG MEN

We  gay men are are constantly in a state of assessing whether the men we meet can make good relationship partners. Makes one wonder how we get it wrong so many times huh? Here are 3 reasons we attract the ‘wrong’ men to us: 1.   Selfishness is often confused with confidence. When a guy is all…

SPIRITLESS HUMANS…

Empty people. Puppet people. Cardboard cutouts. Drones. Organic Portals. Background characters. Why do these terms even exist?  Because out of necessity they had to be invented by those who independently noticed the same puzzling phenomenon, one for which there is no official name: some people seem to be missing something very important inside.  While they…

I DIDN’T RANT…

I keep reading that my blog entries about religion are rants. This would be troubling to me if I didn’t understanding, a rant is an explosive diatribe, a poorly articulated spewing of raw emotion. To successfully write a rant one would need to use a lot of foul language and a small army of exclamation…

SEX: DEALING WITH GAY MEN & EMOTIONS

Some men are comfortable being intimate with another person without experiencing emotional connections. Others prefer levels of emotional sharing before being intimate. Have you thought about where you fall on the spectrum? Not all gay men are built the same. If you are having sex with a partner (a date, a friend, a buddy, or…

JUS’ EMAIL ME: TALK DIRTY TO HIM…

I’m in a 10 year relationship and things are great with us. I know that I have found a guy that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with. Whenever we have sex he always pulls me close, breathes heavy in my ear, and talks dirty. I try to do it back, but…

¿IS KING’S DREAM STILL AN ILLUSION?

There are those that believe the more things change, the more they seem to stay the same. Four decades after civil rights leader Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s assassination, Black people are still facing many of the same issues as then. Low standards for education, high levels of unemployment, police brutality, and an “unjust war”…