SEX: DO YOU KNOW HOW TO HAVE IT?

Sex may seem simple: give, receive, relieve. But, it is far more complicated when you consider the various degrees at which some men are ready to be intimate with other men. Are you ready for intimacy both emotionally as well as physically? Have you prepared to top, bottom, or looked into other ways to be…

THIS FILM SHINES A LIGHT ON WHAT LGBTI PEOPLE ACTUALLY DO IN BED

Whenever there is a discussion about LGBTI rights, someone is bound to steer the conversation into the bedroom direction. But what exactly is it that non-straight people do between the sheets that is so exciting, intriguing or (for some) terrifying to make them constantly discuss it? Filmmaker Bret Thomas’s short video What We Do In…

I KNOW THAT MAN IS GAY {THE GYM GUY}

If you watch him carefully, this man is in obsessively gym-toned shape. Some of you might argue with me on this one (and note that your straight cousin is an exception or your straight neighbor’s not gay but does this too), but it’s incredibly rare to find a straight male who is that buff.  In…

¿IS SEX REALLY BETTER WHEN YOU ARE HIGH?

What is it about drugs that makes everything interesting? You see the intentions of people, the fabulousness in the air as you feel it brush beneath your arms, the complexities of food as you taste it in every bite – it heightens your senses to the point where you feel like you truly “get” what it’s all…

¿AREN’T WE TOO OLD FOR THAT?

Does there come a point when a gay man should stop doing certain things?  You know like decreasing the number of nude photos on Facebook, clubbing every weekend and a whole host of other things we deem fun & exciting. Do you think there comes a time when a gay man is too old to partake in…

12 POWERFUL HABITS OF HAPPY GAY COUPLES

Habits can have a powerful impact in your relationship. The definition of a habit is: “a consistent and regular pattern of behavior”. You can either create positive habits or negative habits, and once you start practicing them, they will eventually become an act that is unconscious. When it comes to having a happy relationship, there…

WHAT DO LGBTQ RIGHTS HAVE TO DO WITH BLACK LIVES MATTER?

I cannot honestly consider the fruits of political or social progress in the LGBTQ community without a lens for the past and future. Furthermore, advances in LGBTQ progress can only be considered progress if it creates a new track, not forcing acceptance on a current track. Therefore, nothing can be honestly praised without a larger…

SEX & THE SELFIE…

There’s a boy you know on Facebook who posts the most amazing selfies. He looks like an angel, if angels did gay porn, and can put up a burningly celestial image in the morning, having amassed well over 1,000 likes by lunch. It’s totally that ‘butter-wouldn’t-melt-but-semen-will-swallow’ smile. Over time he’s built up a following for…

¿DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE?

Finding a fuckbuddy, a hookup, making friends are all easier than finding love. Am I right? To find love, not only you need to be attracted to the person physically, but also mentally and sometimes even spiritually! In the gay world, I feel it is even harder than in the straight world, depending on what…