THE 7th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF RELAXATION

Well, today take a much needed mindful break, and relax. Because we’ve been doing so much intense work, and have begun to see the rewards, we don’t want to just sit around and do nothing. Besides, doing nothing isn’t actually relaxing, it’s just being lazy. Being lazy is so 2017. We’re ready to be beyond…

THE 6th GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF COMMUNITY

There’s something incredibly important about having people in your life, which you can go to for advice when it comes to things in both your personal and professional life. A community offers years of wisdom, knowledge, and guidance to share with you, which will undoubtedly help guide you in making smart and informed decisions. They’ve…

THE 5th GAY OF X-MAS: MARRY YOURSELF

I know this isn’t new but hear me out…This is about completely honoring and loving ourselves. We’ve need to have honest conversations with ourselves, pushed ourselves to try new things, and to take a really long look in the mirror. We need to do this because we need to get out of our own way,…

THE 4th GAY OF X-MAS: OPENINESS

Although not everyone meets our expectations or ideals, nor is everyone the picture perfect sexual fantasy of our dreams, we must learn to look beyond the physical appearance of those who come into our lives and look at the heart, soul, and mind of a person. Open your mind, open your soul, open your heart, and give…

THE 3rd GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF ORDER & SPACE

We want to continue to make our living environments feel as zen as possible, and add to our overall feeling of peace and joy, which is life’s ultimate success. So, take a critical look at the things we have surrounding us, and declutter. Today remove some of the excess from our lives. By removing outdated,…

THE 2nd GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF COURAGE

As we mark a turning point in our world, it’s more important than ever to use your voice. We no longer can assume that everyone has each other’s best interests in mind, and it’s our duty to work as hard as we can for positive and progressive change. We must remember to listen to people’s…

THE 1st GAY OF X-MAS: THE GIFT OF YOU

This is a process, a journey, a never ending adventure to find out who we really are, and what we’re made of. We have to wake up everyday and decide that we want to be happy, confident, strong, brave, amazing, and unapologetically ourselves. It truly is the biggest job of our lives, and we’re the…

NEW RELATIONSHIPS & CHRISTMAS GIFTS…

Christmas is about spending time with love ones and buying gifts, but what about that guy you just started dating? How long should you be dating someone before you buy him a gift for Christmas? Is this something reserved for only serious relationships, or would you do it because it is Christmas?

BETWEEN A ‘DADDY’ & A ‘TWINK’

The gay world typically has a life cycle that goes a little something like this…You start off as a twink, you end up as a daddy. Which means that in your 30s, you’re in no man’s land. While there can be deviations along the way, the trajectory for the most part, is set in stone….