D!CK PICS…🍆

Are your dick pics getting him into your bed? Many gay men aren’t getting hard over dick pics. Are you one of those men? Do you drool over a dick pic or do say no thanks and keep it moving?

BLACK GAY MEN & HIV: ¿WHY THE DISPARITY?

It’s time for us to get real. We are not doing enough to help black gay men who are living with HIV. If you don’t believe me, just look at the data. Why are so many black gay men don’t get into care and onto antiretroviral medication? Is it because of discrimination, poverty, stigma, and a…

THE SEX INTERVIEW BEFORE THE FIRST DATE…

Living in a world where our intimacy boundaries are being pushed and us turning the intimacy tables, do this sex before a date with someone is too much or makes a lot sense? Many of us used to think of sex as you crossed the line now you are in an intimate zone, but now…

HE WANTS SEX MORE THAN HE WANTS YOUR HEART…

You meet a guy, you both share a lot in common. He talk sweet nothings to you, you blush. Then he finds out you are practicing celibacy for a year or two and goes missing. Why when a man comes lusting hard, he goes ‘ghost’ on you when he can’t get to your body? The…

BEING STRONG GAY MEN (POWERING YOUR ‘PANTHER’ ENERGIES)

What makes a gay man confident is his ability to call upon his masculine/feminine wisdom. So often in our world we tend to think of strength as a quality that arises from a place of firm determination and a will to succeed no matter the cost. Even though we might want to think of a…

SO YOU SURVIVED VALENTINE’S…

Congratulations! I’m glad you made it through in one piece.  Is it Valentine’s something that you look forward to? Or something you dread? How’s your relationship going?  Or are you still looking for love?

7 SOLO SEX POSITIONS FOR GREAT SEX WITH YOURSELF

Sex positions are often the go-to tip for spicing up your sex life with a partner.  But when it comes to our solo sex lives, that is, masturbation, finding the right sex position isn’t usually something you think about.  Maybe this is because we think about masturbation for its functional benefits and not an expression of love or lust or creativity. This…

VIRGINITY & THE GAY COMMUNITY…

The entire concept of virginity wasn’t made for us. And yet many in the gay community have simply adopted the term to be referred to anal intercourse instead – even though vaginal intercourse occurs in our community too! Some believe that you have to be both passive and active in intercourse to lose your virginity,…