BE A CATCH FOR HIM…

Sometimes you meet a guy and you hit it off. Best moment in your life, you’re even stuck asking where have this man been all this time? It’s so perfect, you drop all other guys and communication for him. He shows tons of interest in you and you think you found bae. You give him…

ADMIT IT…(VALIDATING SEX)

If most of us are honest, it makes us feel good to know that someone wants to have sex with us. We get that little ego boost because some guy wants to do the no pants dance with us. On the surface, that doesn’t seem too bad. But how do you prevent every sexual encounter…

16 SIGNS YOUR GAY RELATIONSHIP IS OVER…

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. You will see that cheating is not on this list — I do not see it as a terminal sign. If my guy gets drunk and bangs someone in the back of a club, I…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: SUGAR DADDY WAITING

I surf the internet hoping to find a hot young male who could qualify as my full-time lover and playmate (LTR). I am a Silver Daddy who likes the magnificent beauty of a young Adonis and I find a 30 year age spread to be hot! The eye candy appeal intoxicates me and my animal…

CHANGING ROLES AS WE EBB & FLOW THROUGH THE COMMUNITY

We all change throughout life trying new and different things, but the core of who we really are remains the same. As we bob and weave with the ebb and flow of life our roles change, but our true self remains constant. As gay men, we go through many aspects of humanity in one lifetime….

¿WHY DO WE STAY WITH MEN THAT DON’T ADD TO OUR VALUE?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain A$$HOLES. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

¿WHAT IS THE BEST SEX YOU EVER HAD?

Picture this: You. The man of your dreams. In bed. The walls shake with the power of a Richter 7 earthquake, your hands are clasped in unbridled ecstasy, gasps and moans of intense animalistic pleasure fill the air as the heavens open to the sound of your earth-shattering, mind-blowing, operatic lovemaking! Sound familiar? Probably not….

SAY YES TO THE COMMUNITY

The hardest thing about saying yes to the our community is that it means accepting everything life puts in front of us. Most of us have a habit of going through our days saying no to the things we don’t like and yes to the things we do, and yet, everything we encounter is our…