WORTHINESS (ACCEPTING OUR CALLING IN THE COMMUNITY)

Our worth of being in the community @ this time cannot be judged as we are all worthy and essential to being here now. The issue of worthiness may come up in many areas of our lives, as we ask, often unconsciously, whether we are worthy of success, love, happiness, and countless other things, from…

¿WHO SAYS THAT’S TRUE?

We’re all spiritually, emotionally, and physically aware beings. We pick up stuff from the world around usand the result is that many of our thoughts, feelings, and emotions aren’t our own. Instead we pick them up in different conversations, situations, and motivations from those around us. If you find yourself buying into a point of…

MEET THE LESBIAN ASYLUM SEEKERS BATTLING THE UK’s ‘HOSTILE & HOMOPHOBIC’ IMMIGRATION SYSTEM

To mark Lesbian Visibility Day, PinkNews spoke to three lesbian asylum seekers about their harrowing experiences – from depression to attempted suicide – as they fight the UK immigration system. In November, PinkNews revealed that thousands of gay, lesbian and bisexual asylum seekers have been refused asylum from countries where they could face prison, violence or death. Figures quietly released…

NBA PLAYER WANTS RAINBOW JERSEYS TO HELP BRING LGBTQ INTO SPORTS

Detroit Pistons player Reggie Bullock has a new idea for the NBA — rainbow jerseys. Yesterday afternoon (22 April), he tweeted about a dream he had. ‘Just woke up out a dream and thought about playing in a rainbow colored jersey to incorportate #LGBTQ into sports,’ he wrote. Then he tagged the NBA itself: ‘Help…

¿CAN WE ACKNOWLEDGE OUR QUEER SELVES?

Most LGBTQ persons look for someone else to acknowledge them when they’re not acknowledging themselves, when all they really longing for is to be seen. To be validated. How doe we come to a place where only we and no one else can give us a sense of worth?  Can we actively choose to see…

¿WHY DO YOU WE STAY WITH MEN THAT ARE ‘BAD’ FOR US?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain jerks. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

10 WAYS NON-MONOGAMY CAN MAKE YOU A BETTER PARTNER

In our community and many others, the typical relationship narrative goes like this: You date around a little, eventually finding one true soul mate, the one person you’ll grow old with, maybe raise children with, and the one and only person you’ll have sex with. But there are a lot of people who don’t subscribe to this…