SOCIAL MEDIA HATE & GAY MEN…

We can all agree that online hate and trolling sucks. But when it happens to sexy, provocative and “out there” gay guys, do our attitudes about it change? Can we honestly talk about the double standard between our thoughts about online hate? I’m sure we can all agree that we as gay men experiencing online…

¡NO MORE SEX SHAMING!

So what Pride month coming to a close, I’m sure many of wonder, why would anyone want to be a slut? After all, this word is deeply misogynistic, where women are criticized for dressing a certain way and for having openly active sex lives. This negativity also spills into the gay world to some extent, particularly…

5 MYTHS ABOUT GAY MONOGAMY

I think gay monogamy is a little misunderstood, especially by gay men themselves. However, this isn’t a ‘Why gay monogamy is better than…’ article. While this article discusses 5 myths about gay monogamy, I’d like to start by saying that I’m not going to, or even trying to, portray open relationships in a bad light. Not at…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: NEED NOT REPLY?

Sometimes when I’m on social media apps and I see someone’s profile that I might be interested in and I say hello or a little more like “Hello there. How’s your day?” But then I get no response and after a while I see that he viewed my profile but didn’t have the courtesy to…

WHEN WE DON’T TAKE ACTION BEYOND 🏳️‍🌈 PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Our actions shape our lives, but what we don’t take action on can be just as powerful. Life is sculpted on a moment-to-moment basis. Every one of the thoughts we think, the words we speak, and the actions we take contributes to the complex quality and character of the universe’s unfolding. It simply is not…

HARMONIOUS ZOO…

devious mischievous and envious a little speechless not me misleading you its true we live in a seriously serious civilized zoo where’s the harmony?  I listen very carefully I feel a little silly trying to find and define it even though I have been in it and have a the scars to prove it in…

¿WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST PRIDE EXPERIENCE LIKE?

The very first Gay Pride March was held on June 28, 1970 to mark the first anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, and over the decades the tone and tenor of the Pride March has changed. Nevertheless, it still has the power to inspire and empower the members of our community that need that extra push….

RELATIONSHIPS & YOUR EXES…

Despite our… let’s call them varied experiences with dating, many of us never had conversations with our exes to understand where things went wrong. Now as a disclaimer, I’d like to acknowledge that, I know that everyone of your exes won’t be honest with you, but having this conversation can’t hurt nonetheless. Many of us…