¿WHY IS MONOGAMY SEEN AS SOMETHING TO FEAR FOR SOME GAY MEN?

Maybe this sounds familiar: You meet a guy, it goes well, so you go out. Then you go on another date, and another, and all of a sudden, a few months have passed, and you’re with someone who makes you smile. But there’s that nagging feeling: Is this too easy, asking yourself if you’re settling?…

EMBRACING THE COMMUNITY (A SEPARATE REALITY)

Sometimes we purposefully, though unconsciously, cut ourselves off from the flow and the embrace of humanity so we can avoid dealing with painful issues. We all experience periods where we feel separated from the loving ebb and flow of the universe. These times of feeling disconnected from the source may occur for many reasons, but…

¿THE TERM “DADDY”: WHAT’S YOUR STATE OF MIND?

What defines an actual “daddy” in the gay community now?  Is it one’s biological age? The type of behavior one exhibits when out and about or in the bedroom? A look that makes one want to submit to him?

LEAVING YOUR WORLD BEHIND FOR THE COMMUNITY

Leaving the home and environments that we’ve know all our lives is hard but a necessary step to receiving what we want in life. When attempts at repairing and working out issues aren’t working, it may be time to examine moving on. We are emotional creatures, and when our heartstrings are tied to those of…

THE NEXT FRONTIER OF LGBT EQUALITY? REFORMING THE GENDER RECOGNITION ACT

“You can get married now, isn’t that all you wanted? I thought the struggle for LGBT equality was over?” Over and over again, I get asked these kinds of questions. People trying to figure out what’s next after equal marriage. While there’s still plenty of progress to be made for the whole community, for trans people…

¿CAN MEN THAT TAKE IT LIKE MAN EVER GET REAL RESPECT?

Aren’t we all damaged goods, trying to find our way around the sexual maze? Don’t we all enjoy anal sex, so why do we make those of that  “bottom” feel like failures as men and discarded outside the bedroom?  In a community where we add new letters to LGBTQI to make it more encompassing and the with the ascent…