GAY MEN & CARRYING HIS HEAVY BAGGAGE…

Every new relationship we enter, should be a fresh start. It shouldn’t be complicated. When you start to complain about how bad men & your exes are to you, you start to realize that many men won’t stick around. New beginnings should never end up with old baggage. A man doesn’t want to hear about…

9 WAYS TO SURVIVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP

“Open relationships are not real relationships”. “Gay men are greedy”. “You can’t truly love someone if you can have sex with other men”. You name it, we’ve heard it. Everyone seems to have an opinion about open relationships, but not many will tell you how to make them work for you. Every relationship, whether you’re…

ENJOY LIFE JUST AS IT IS…

You pick up a self-help book, enthusiastically about to take in every word, but as you read you start to wonder: What does that writer hope for, exactly? Does he really believe those things? If so, does he think it’s going to get better?  Because I know a lot of us feel this way. Like that…

SOCIAL MEDIA & GETTING OLDER

The interesting thing that happens when you start to age, is that while you may not feel the age thing yourself, you experience it in terms of distance. Distance to what’s cool and prevalent in popular culture. Distance to friendships that have ended – for one reason or another. Distance to how people perceive you,…

TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE

Today is International Day of the Trans Memory, or Transgender Day of Remembrance. This date honors the trans people who died victims of transphobia & intolerance. It’s also a day to demand JUSTICE! How can you participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance? Participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance by attending or organizing a…

¿WHAT’S THE LEAST AMOUNT OF EXERCISE YOU CAN DO & STILL BE HEALTHY?

It’s no secret that exercise does a body good. But between work, your side hustle, and just doin’ you, squeezing in time to sweat is a struggle—so we don’t blame you for wondering how much is just enough. The rule of thumb is this: 150 minutes of moderate aerobic exercise or 75 minutes of more intense…

¿DO YOU CHECK YOUR PHONE DURING SEX?

Phone sex is one thing and as technology changed the way we have sex, do you think it is a bit much for your partner to be using his phone during sex? I am not talking about filming the activity taking place, I am talking about the folks that think it’s totally cool to pull out…