9 WAYS TO SURVIVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP

“Open relationships are not real relationships”. “Gay men are greedy”. “You can’t truly love someone if you can have sex with other men”. You name it, we’ve heard it. Everyone seems to have an opinion about open relationships, but not many will tell you how to make them work for you. Every relationship, whether you’re…

ENJOY LIFE JUST AS IT IS…

You pick up a self-help book, enthusiastically about to take in every word, but as you read you start to wonder: What does that writer hope for, exactly? Does he really believe those things? If so, does he think it’s going to get better?  Because I know a lot of us feel this way. Like that…

SOCIAL MEDIA & GETTING OLDER

The interesting thing that happens when you start to age, is that while you may not feel the age thing yourself, you experience it in terms of distance. Distance to what’s cool and prevalent in popular culture. Distance to friendships that have ended – for one reason or another. Distance to how people perceive you,…

TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE

Today is International Day of the Trans Memory, or Transgender Day of Remembrance. This date honors the trans people who died victims of transphobia & intolerance. It’s also a day to demand JUSTICE! How can you participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance? Participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance by attending or organizing a…

2018: ¿WHAT IS CHEATING TO YOU?

What counts as cheating for you in this day and age? Using hookup apps when in a relationship?  How do you define cheating? Have you been cheated on recently?

¿HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ORBITED?

Well, have you? I am asking because orbiting is the newest dating trend they say and it’s the derivative of ghosting. The term was reportedly coined by Man Repeller writer Anna Iovine but what is orbiting, you ask? Before we go to that part though, let’s define ghosting first.  Say you are in a relationship…