When you first met the man who is now your partner, neither of you expected anything beyond friendship and fun, despite your obvious attraction to each other. But you quickly developed a deep connection, and fell hard and fast for each other… which meant letting go of all of your sexual partners. Even though it…
Month: November 2018
GAY MEN & CARRYING HIS HEAVY BAGGAGE…
Every new relationship we enter, should be a fresh start. It shouldn’t be complicated. When you start to complain about how bad men & your exes are to you, you start to realize that many men won’t stick around. New beginnings should never end up with old baggage. A man doesn’t want to hear about…
9 WAYS TO SURVIVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP
“Open relationships are not real relationships”. “Gay men are greedy”. “You can’t truly love someone if you can have sex with other men”. You name it, we’ve heard it. Everyone seems to have an opinion about open relationships, but not many will tell you how to make them work for you. Every relationship, whether you’re…
ENJOY LIFE JUST AS IT IS…
You pick up a self-help book, enthusiastically about to take in every word, but as you read you start to wonder: What does that writer hope for, exactly? Does he really believe those things? If so, does he think it’s going to get better? Because I know a lot of us feel this way. Like that…
WHO HAS BETTER ORGASMS “TOPS” ¿OR? “BOTTOMS”
Orgasms feel pretty great for everyone, but from your experience, who has the better experience? Do you think the ‘top’ or ‘bottom’ has the better soul-fucking experience?
SOCIAL MEDIA & GETTING OLDER
The interesting thing that happens when you start to age, is that while you may not feel the age thing yourself, you experience it in terms of distance. Distance to what’s cool and prevalent in popular culture. Distance to friendships that have ended – for one reason or another. Distance to how people perceive you,…
TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE
Today is International Day of the Trans Memory, or Transgender Day of Remembrance. This date honors the trans people who died victims of transphobia & intolerance. It’s also a day to demand JUSTICE! How can you participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance? Participate in the Transgender Day of Remembrance by attending or organizing a…
JUS’ E-MAIL ME: DATING & OPEN RELATIONSHIPS
I never planned to date a guy in an open relationship. It wasn’t that I was so gung-ho on monogamy, I just figured it wasn’t for me. I’m too jealous, can be needy and didn’t like the idea of being shared. Besides, everyone I knew growing up was monogamous. My parents. My grandparents. Their friends…
¿WHAT’S THE LEAST AMOUNT OF EXERCISE YOU CAN DO & STILL BE HEALTHY?
It’s no secret that exercise does a body good. But between work, your side hustle, and just doin’ you, squeezing in time to sweat is a struggle—so we don’t blame you for wondering how much is just enough. The rule of thumb is this: 150 minutes of moderate aerobic exercise or 75 minutes of more intense…
