FALL IN LOVE WITH BEING ALIVE!

In 2019, I hope you fall in love with being alive. I hope you fall in love with the loud moments and the softer moments. I hope you fall in love with both the star-scattered sky and the thunderstorms that burst out above your head. I hope you lose your umbrella and you let loose…

¿HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU MET YOUR SOULMATE(S)?

Soulmate; a word which makes you think about romantic movie scenes and love songs. An epitome who makes you feel whole because he is your other half who finished each other sentences and made you brave enough to break down your walls. The definition of soulmate sounds too cliché as its concept always be related…

GROUNDING OURSELVES: THE COMMUNITY BEING OUR STRONG CONTAINER

As queer beings living on earth, it is important to learn to ground ourselves in relation to our community. We often hear people telling us to ground ourselves, but we may not be sure what that means and how we might do it. Grounding ourselves is a way of bringing ourselves literally back to the…

GRATITUDE: THE COMMUNITY IN A BRIGHT LIGHTS

There is always something to be grateful for, even when life is hard and times are tough.  Every day is a blessing, and in each moment there are many things that we can be grateful for. The world opens up to us when we live in a space of gratitude. In essence, gratitude has a…

THE COMMUNITY, THE GIFT WE GIVE OURSELVES

By acting as mirrors, our various communities can help us define who we are by reflecting our selves back to us.  Our varied queer communities enrich our lives in so many ways. Through a magical combination of similarities and differences, we get the opportunity to know ourselves as we are and help us grow into…

DATING: ¿WHAT CAN HELP YOU GET BACK INTO THE POOL?

Heartbreak is never easy, and getting back on the dating saddle, so to speak, can be both exhilarating and arduous. There’s the excitement of getting back out there and meeting someone new, but also the fear and nervousness of having to get used once again to the dating scene once again — especially if a…

¿WHERE HAVE ALL THE GREAT GAY BLOGGERS GONE?

If you look at some of the most popular gay blogs at the moment, you will most likely come across gossip and click bait with hundreds of thousands of followers and a gaggle of fans consistently commenting on their offering. One would thing that they’d be dealing with bloggers that speak out on issues from…