FALL IN LOVE WITH BEING ALIVE!

In 2019, I hope you fall in love with being alive. I hope you fall in love with the loud moments and the softer moments. I hope you fall in love with both the star-scattered sky and the thunderstorms that burst out above your head. I hope you lose your umbrella and you let loose…

KINKY SEX…

Kinky includes anything that deviates from the straight and narrow. From playing doctor, to spanking, to BDSM and fisting, kinky sex is the contrary of missionary position. It’s important to be on the same sexual wavelength as your partner though. Unfortunately, most gay guys don’t discover their partner’s fantasies until later in the relationship. So communication…

¿HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU MET YOUR SOULMATE(S)?

Soulmate; a word which makes you think about romantic movie scenes and love songs. An epitome who makes you feel whole because he is your other half who finished each other sentences and made you brave enough to break down your walls. The definition of soulmate sounds too cliché as its concept always be related…

GROUNDING OURSELVES: THE COMMUNITY BEING OUR STRONG CONTAINER

As queer beings living on earth, it is important to learn to ground ourselves in relation to our community. We often hear people telling us to ground ourselves, but we may not be sure what that means and how we might do it. Grounding ourselves is a way of bringing ourselves literally back to the…

¿HOW DOES PORN AFFECT OUR SEX LIVES?

All it takes is a click or two and you could easily witness enough porn to last your entire life, but is that a good thing? This is a question that’s been debated for years, especially since the rise of YouTube-style XXX sites like PornHub. But even though this isn’t a new thing, the discussion…

WHEN LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS BECOME A CHALLENGE…

Like many things worth having in life, love is always risky because you never know how it will turn out in the end. When you are single for a long time it is normal for two things to happen: 1) to feel like you won’t ever find true love and 2) to have a naive perception of love and all…

GRATITUDE: THE COMMUNITY IN A BRIGHT LIGHTS

There is always something to be grateful for, even when life is hard and times are tough.  Every day is a blessing, and in each moment there are many things that we can be grateful for. The world opens up to us when we live in a space of gratitude. In essence, gratitude has a…

SEX: ¿WHAT ARE YOUR BIGGEST NO-NOS?

Just curious, guys, is there anything you won’t do during sex? Is it scat? Eating before sex? Inflicting physical pain? Why do we refuse certain sex acts? Is it because we find it gross, humiliating, degrading, painful, dangerous, or scary? What are your limits in the bedroom? I believe we all have one. What’s your…