YOU & YOUR SEX DRIVE

Contrary to the tired old stereotype that gay guys are in a state of constant heat, many of us just aren’t that into sex – or at least go through periods of time when sex just isn’t a big priority. I know, the shock and the horror of it all. But it’s true. Sex is…

¿WHAT’S THE BIGGEST LIE YOU EVER TOLD TO GET A DATE?

Over the years, the phenomena of catfishing and telling lies online has grown along with the rise of the internet and social media. It’s relatively easy to do, after all. The internet and social media is built in such a way that you can not just be anonymous, but even build an entirely new persona…

JUS’ E-MAIL ME: SEX, TRUST & CAMERAS…

I’ve been dating a guy for a few months now and on Valentine’s Day, he’s hinted at us making a video. And not the G-rated either. Truthfully, I have mixed feelings about it. I mean I trust him but can you really ever trust anyone? Now he’s upset with me for not doing and said that…

MYTH OR REALITY (THE IDEAL MAN)

What are the qualities you are looking for in a partner/husband/boyfriend? Do you have a yardstick for choosing the right person for you?   What do you think makes a person special? What are the basic and ideal qualities that he must have?

SEX & TECHNOLOGY

If you’d have told our great grandparents that one day we’d be exposing our genitals to strangers through a computer screen, they’d probably scream bloody murder. But this is sexual expression – and a career – in 2019.  In fact, technology plays a huge – even pivotal – role in our modern sexualities; whether we’re…

10 REASONS WHY NONE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS LAST LONGER THAN 3 MONTHS

Three months of dating a guy may not seem like a long time, but for some of us, it’s the longest relationship we’ve ever had. So if you find yourself in that category, asking yourself, “Why can’t I seem to have a boyfriend longer than a few months?”then this article and (10 reasons) are for you! …

MISSED CONNECTIONS…

Has a guy ever flirted with you, hinted he liked you, but then for some reason or other you totally missed it only to realize years later that the poor guy was actually trying to ask you out? Any missed signal/missed connection stories? 

THE COMMUNITY (WE ARE FAMILY)

We are queer individuals, we are family – we all look at the same stars, we all laugh and cry, we all love. When it comes to our communities, we sometimes see only our differences. We see the way many of us cling to ideas we don’t believe, or act in ways we try not…