YOU & YOUR SEX DRIVE

Contrary to the tired old stereotype that gay guys are in a state of constant heat, many of us just aren’t that into sex – or at least go through periods of time when sex just isn’t a big priority. I know, the shock and the horror of it all. But it’s true. Sex is…

¿WHAT’S THE BIGGEST LIE YOU EVER TOLD TO GET A DATE?

Over the years, the phenomena of catfishing and telling lies online has grown along with the rise of the internet and social media. It’s relatively easy to do, after all. The internet and social media is built in such a way that you can not just be anonymous, but even build an entirely new persona…

THE COMMUNITY (WE ARE FAMILY)

We are queer individuals, we are family – we all look at the same stars, we all laugh and cry, we all love. When it comes to our communities, we sometimes see only our differences. We see the way many of us cling to ideas we don’t believe, or act in ways we try not…

APPLY GENTLENESS TO OUR COMMUNITIES

Struggle can find no foothold when confronted with gentleness, because conflict can only exist when fed by two opposing forces. Throughout life in our communities, we must cope with blockages that impede our forward momentum. Whether these obstacles are of a personal, professional, or societal nature, our first instinct may be to push against the…

SPACE IN TOGETHERNESS (COMMUNITY BARRIERS)

Maintaining healthy boundaries is about recognizing the point at which our principles, and those of our communities, no longer overlap. As relationships evolve, lives gradually become entwined. We tend to have a great deal in common with the people who attract us, and our regard for them compels us to trust their judgment. While our…