YOU & YOUR SEX DRIVE

Contrary to the tired old stereotype that gay guys are in a state of constant heat, many of us just aren’t that into sex – or at least go through periods of time when sex just isn’t a big priority. I know, the shock and the horror of it all. But it’s true. Sex is…

¿WHAT’S THE BIGGEST LIE YOU EVER TOLD TO GET A DATE?

Over the years, the phenomena of catfishing and telling lies online has grown along with the rise of the internet and social media. It’s relatively easy to do, after all. The internet and social media is built in such a way that you can not just be anonymous, but even build an entirely new persona…

SEX & TECHNOLOGY

If you’d have told our great grandparents that one day we’d be exposing our genitals to strangers through a computer screen, they’d probably scream bloody murder. But this is sexual expression – and a career – in 2019.  In fact, technology plays a huge – even pivotal – role in our modern sexualities; whether we’re…

10 REASONS WHY NONE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS LAST LONGER THAN 3 MONTHS

Three months of dating a guy may not seem like a long time, but for some of us, it’s the longest relationship we’ve ever had. So if you find yourself in that category, asking yourself, “Why can’t I seem to have a boyfriend longer than a few months?”then this article and (10 reasons) are for you! …

THE COMMUNITY (WE ARE FAMILY)

We are queer individuals, we are family – we all look at the same stars, we all laugh and cry, we all love. When it comes to our communities, we sometimes see only our differences. We see the way many of us cling to ideas we don’t believe, or act in ways we try not…

¿WHERE DOES VALENTINE & THE SEASON OF ‘LOVE’ MEET YOU?

Are you fed up being single? Has it been a while since your last relationship? Does it sometimes feel like you’re invisible? Or do you find yourself attracting nothing but losers? Do you sit on apps for hours on end but always swipe left? Or do you swipe right every time but no one ever sends you…

APPLY GENTLENESS TO OUR COMMUNITIES

Struggle can find no foothold when confronted with gentleness, because conflict can only exist when fed by two opposing forces. Throughout life in our communities, we must cope with blockages that impede our forward momentum. Whether these obstacles are of a personal, professional, or societal nature, our first instinct may be to push against the…