Sometimes in a relationship/hookup session, you’re not sure how to phrase a delicate subject or tricky topic. Sure, saying nothing at all is easy, but avoiding the subject doesn’t do anyone any good. So is it so hard to have those difficult discussions about sexual performance (or lack thereof) without it turning into full-blown fight?
Being told that you’re bad in bed is the stuff of nightmares, and there’s almost no way to soften the blow of it. If you’re the one delivering the message, are you trying to be honest all while not coming off like an absolute monster? Or do you just rip the band-aid off?