53150338_386581268797004_8249068528347381760_nBeing part of a threesome is a common sexual fantasy for my partner and me, but finding our way into one (and maneuvering within one) seems incredibly daunting. We are not familiar with sharing intimacy with anyone other than ourselves and we are wondering how to navigate a 3some without any drama?

Have you ever been in this situation? 

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?

2 Comments Add yours

  1. renudepride says:

    I’ve only been involved in a 3some once in my life. My severely closeted boyfriend (at that time) was dating two openly gay men, myself and one other. We hooked up twice a month for sex for about 6 months total. The first couple of hookups were strictly awkward but after we got comfortable with one another and knew what to expect sexually, it was an okay experience. Naked hugs!


  2. Amaker says:

    I think there is only drama if you expect there to be. Most of the time the drama arises from insecurity in my opinion. If I just focus on the fact that my partner is receiving pleasure and he can do the same, a threesome can be a wonderful shared experience. You should talk about it first. Set boundaries for things that may be too much for the first time and also prepare for the fact that certain feelings may arise and in the event of those feelings, what should be done. You can’t complain nitrile your feelings but you can control your thoughts around those feelings.


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