14-orthodox-calendarSexually, many of us are displeased with our playmate choices after surfing online, arranging to meet one another, and then discovering that you were misunderstood somewhere in the communication process.

After going to the effort to meet, realizing you and your potential playmate are not in sync is very irritating. How could your potential playmate have misunderstood what you wanted, and the compromises you were willing to make?

 So, do you feel that gay men like pushing each other’s buttons?

What are your positive/negative experiences in finding compatible playmates?

2 Comments Add yours

  1. renudepride says:

    I married my “playmate” on August 15, 2015. We remain happily together! Naked hugs! 🙂


  2. galby68 says:

    Personally, I think we deserve it for trying to order sex a la carte. For humans, I think sex is gonna feel that way – even over our refusal to acknowledge it – if we try to deny that sex is more than a biological imperative for us.
    Animals mate to procreate, we do also, but also mate for pleasure. Factoring another *person* out of that equation and reducing them to a list of checked off boxes is a recipe for dissatisfaction, IMO.


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