ADMIT IT…(VALIDATING SEX)

If most of us are honest, it makes us feel good to know that someone wants to have sex with us. We get that little ego boost because some guy wants to do the no pants dance with us. On the surface, that doesn’t seem too bad. But how do you prevent every sexual encounter…

ANYTHING THAT MOVES: GAY MEN & DATING…

“Anything That Moves”—is the reputed three-word philosophy of most of us gay men in terms of dating. When you “gay date” there is a perception that as a gay guy you can have whomever you want, whenever you want, and for whatever motive. BUT this is rarely true. When you throw a look or smile at…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 12, EPISODE 9 – “CHOICES 2020”

I can’t tell if it’s just that phase of quarantine where literally anything sends me into wild fits of rage, or if we have truly reached maximum RuPaul. Either way, yes, Vaginameatagingerminj, it is possible to have too much of a good thing. The 3.5-hour Drag Race marathon included a 90-minute celeb edition (see our review/recap here), Untucked and, of…

SHOWING UP FOR THE COMMUNITY

If you show up for yourself in your community, the universe will show up for you. The way we move within the community says a lot about the way we live our lives. When we move within the community curious about what’s happening, willing to engage, and perceiving ourselves as an active participant with something…