Picture this: You. The man of your dreams. In bed. The walls shake with the power of a Richter 7 earthquake, your hands are clasped in unbridled ecstasy, gasps and moans of intense animalistic pleasure fill the air as the heavens open to the sound of your earth-shattering, mind-blowing, operatic lovemaking!
Sound familiar? Probably not. How many sexual experiences are ever on this scale? Are more often sadly consigned to our memory bank, filed under ‘unobtainable fantasies’? So what is the secret to fulfilling sex? Technique and experience all come into play, but I think there’s more to it than being able to have a wicked.
In our app obsessed culture, sex has become as available as fast food. If you pop online at any point, chances are someone nearby is seeking sex as well. We want to have our cake and eat it. We can have sex to our hearts’ content – and another organ’s a little further south. So we have many prospective lovers all around us, but that doesn’t mean every time will be a knockout. Is that because we lie to ourselves about what we want from sex?
What’s the best sex you ever had?