MYTH OR REALITY (THE IDEAL MAN)

What are the qualities you are looking for in a partner/husband/boyfriend? Do you have a yardstick for choosing the right person for you?ย ย  What do you think makes a person special? What are the basic and ideal qualities that he must have?

‘DRAG RACE’ QUEENS RELEASE PSA TO COMBAT TOXIC ‘FANDOM’

For years RuPaul’s Drag Race has had deep-seated issues within its supposed fandom. Viers of the show have criticized, ridiculed, and otherwise abused the show’s stars, the worst has been consistently reserved for Black contestants. Black performers have had their social media accounts hacked with racist epithets posted, and they’ve been threatened with murder. This hasn’t just…

THE THUG TYPE: HOT ยฟOR? NOT

You came across these guys in your life for sure. You know the type of guys that has the strong attitude, the magnetism of a leader, mixed with the thug life persona? So do you like thug type?

BLACK TRANSGENDER WOMAN AERRION BURNETT KILLED IN MISSOURI

Aerrion Burnett, a 37-year-old Black transgender woman, was shot to death Saturday in Independence, Mo., becoming the 27th known trans homicide victim of 2020. Burnett, who lived in nearby Kansas City, was found dead on the side of the road about 3:40 a.m., TV station KMBC reports. It was two days before her 38th birthday. Friends and…

BREAKING COMMUNITY CYCLES (THE START OF CHANGE)

Breaking your community patterns may be the most important work you do and the most challenging. It is easy to believe that in living our various queer communities and embarking upon the journey of finding who are will effectively removed us from harmful and self-perpetuating patterns. In looking closely at ourselves, however, we may discover…

ยฟDO YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT THOSE THAT ARE IMPACTED BY COVID?

In a relatively short time frame, many of us have faced several significant, unexpected losses and life changes, back-to-back: Losing family and friends to COVID. Financial uncertainty following job losses. Breaking ties with a loved one who repeatedly betrayed us.ย  To say that the experiences of 2020 is brutal is an understatement and enduring setback…