119473960_657509768219082_1555108613258525138_nI met a guy at my gym a while ago. We added each other on FB and we chatted and texted for few weeks. We even met several times casually and one time for sex. I suggested to him that we should date and start being lovers since we had this great connection. He was hesitant but liked the idea to go slow and see where it would lead us.

We kept on chatting and texting each other even though we haven’t hung out or had sex again. So imagine my surprise when I found out that he’s no longer single and he wants  us to stay friends and see each other for fun etc.


Have you ever had to deal with this?

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?

2 Comments Add yours

  1. Deron Hines says:

    It’s good that he told you instead, he could have just lied to you about the other person and still date you. We need more people to say what they want and how they feel when it comes to a relationship


  2. Jeff Weber says:

    Seriously think that this is quite normal for us gay guys… and we need friends who we have real chemistry with… it’s not the sex that matters…When the right guy comes; you get the whole package. Embrace the love!


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