When it comes to the subject of tops and bottoms, most gay guys seem set in their ways. Unless they’re vers, there’s very little movement from top to bottom or vice versa, pun intended.
However, there are those tops who meet that special guy that makes them decide maybe it’s worth it to be the bottom for once. If you’re one of those guys, you’re in luck. Here’s our list of tips for top looking to bottom for the first time.
- Lube up
It can’t be said often enough: lube is really, really important, especially if it’s your first time taking a dick. Don’t be afraid to be liberal with applying it on your hole and on your partner’s cock — it’s hard to get pleasure out of bottoming when you have to wince all throughout. Get free lube here!
Another great way to prepare yourself for bottoming is with dilating your asshole. Doing so helps your muscles relax and makes it easier for you to lubricate your anal canal. If this is something you want to try out there’s plenty of anal training kits in the Adam4Adam Store to try out.
- Assume the position
Of course, there is no one perfect position as it depends on how your bodies respond to one another. However, it is a good idea to have yourself on top of your top so you get to control how deep, how hard, and how fast the top can go. Switch your positions up once you’re no longer feeling any discomfort. You can even have him stick it in you deeper, faster, and harder.
- Talk to him
Bottoming for the first time can be a really intense experience, so make sure that you’re telling your partner everything that’s going on while it’s happening — whether it’s painful, pleasurable, or whatnot. Unless your partner’s an asshole, they’re going to appreciate you telling them that what they’re doing is making you feel good.
It’s just three tips, but these are ones that are sure to make your first time bottoming an enjoyable experience. If any of you have any other helpful suggestions, feel free to tell us all about it!