📲 SOCIAL MEDIA & GETTING OLDER 🤔

The interesting thing that happens when you start to age, is that while you may not feel the age thing yourself, you experience it in terms of distance. Distance to what’s cool and prevalent in popular culture. Distance to friendships that have ended – for one reason or another. Distance to how people perceive you, and your age, and how you feel about yourself.

When you see people get the ‘Oh I’m so sorry’ look flash across their face when they find out your age, but you feel fitter, healthier and stronger than at any other point in your life, it’s a bit confusing. But secretly, it’s also a little liberating.

You realise how stuck they are in preconceived notions that crumble when put under even the tiniest amount of scrutiny. It’s like a feminist feeling empowered by any Beyonce faux-empowerment song. Your idea of what it means to be an independent woman (in the world of Beyonce), and the reality of actually being an independent woman (in the world we actually live in), are two completely separate things.

And so it is with aging. The reality is quite a bit different to the idea of it. Which in many ways is a good thing. If you’re scared or worried about getting older, you don’t need to be. It’s won’t be as bad as you think it might be.

I guess for me, as I get older in this time and space in history, getting older blurs with all of the changes that are taking place in our lives because of social media and digital connectedness (or more accurately, perceived connectedness). Simple ways of being, manners and etiquette from even half a decade ago, have leapfrogged and morphed into things I don’t recognise – and honestly, don’t like.

It’s not just something I don’t like in others. It’s something I don’t like in myself.

I remember a time when I wouldn’t even take my mobile phone out to dinner. I remember a time when I would watch TV – with no other screens around me. And I remember a time when I would wake up and not madly dash towards a device.

Is any of this helping me, making me healthier, or happier? Is society broken and we’re all too distracted by what’s on our screens that we aren’t even noticing? Or am I just getting older?….

SOURCE: THE LITTLE GAY BLOG

3 Comments Add yours

  1. renudepride says:

    Avery interesting concept and perspective, my friend! 🙂 Bare hugs!

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    1. Yeah something we all will deal with 😊

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  2. nubianikigai says:

    This experience that you’ve described, you, and I and many others are wading through as well. Call it melancholy, nostalgia, or the wind of change. Fortunately its not something that is unique to a small few.

    Evolution and growth is a constant in life. Imagine the guy who went to sleep blowing out a candle and waking up to electricity. Wasn’t too long ago, was it? My parents met at church, now its ok to hook up on dating apps.

    I’m happy to be in this moment. This blog serves as a testimony. I count my blessing as I was born just at the dawn of the comuter age. Even though I’m not an ace at it like the millenlials ( this satement is indeed debatable), I have enough notions and stepback which allows me to be adventurous and careful at the same time. I also have enough judgement and maturity that comes in really handy when it comes to using socal media.

    When it comes to social media, no age group neither has the upper hand or is at a handicap.

    Society is society with or without social media. We’ve always had to deal with crime, hate, biggotry, drugs, the news, bullying and war….how has that changed? Has socialmedia made things worse? As individuals we just need to adapt….identify the roots causes of our actions and deal with them in kind.

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