In life, you may not always be able to get what you want…but does that mean you should just give up trying to get what you want when it comes to relationships?

It can be easy to fall into the pattern of setting aside your needs, settling for less than what you truly want, and minimizing your desires in order to please your partner in a relationship. But where does that leave you?

It could leave you in a number of places, none of which are good. If you’re constantly behaving from a place of fear—fear that your partner might leave you, might yell at you, might belittle you—then you’re not being true to yourself and your needs or desires. If you feel like you are always dodging or walking on eggshells in order to avoid conflict, that still means you’re acting out of fear.

Truthfully, it is possible to get what you want in a relationship. There is one big thing you can do as well as a few things to avoid in order to reach a place where you’re getting what you want from a relationship.

If you feel you’re not currently getting what you want, starting with what not to do may help you understand where you are, so how you get what you want out of relationship?

One Comment Add yours

  1. nubianikigai says:

    Communication, trust, dialogue honesty and openness
    It may not be easy, but at the end of the day, if everyone gets what they want, it should be worth the try.


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