Have you stayed up countless nights tossing and turning, considering what you were and weren’t getting from the person lying beside you?
Have you ended (many) relationships on the gamble that there was someone better suited for you? Someone more artistic, someone more intellectual, someone more established, someone different…
It isn’t crazy to have questions and curiosities when the honeymoon period ends, when the realities of a relationship sets in, so why is the thought of ‘settling’ the scariest thing in the realm of love?
Do you think it’s scary because it goes against the culture messaging that we have received that there is a “soul mate” out there for you, that there is a “perfect” person, or that if you kiss enough frogs you will find the “one?”