🤲🏽 THE DEATH & REBIRTH OF SELF🤞🏽

Sometimes a part of us must die, before another part can come to life.

Sometimes a part of us must die before another part can come to life. Even though this is a natural and necessary part of our growth, it is often painful or, if we don’t realize what’s happening, confusing and disorienting. In fact, confusion and disorientation are often the messengers that tell us a shift is taking place within us. These shifts happen throughout the lives of all humans, as we move from infancy to childhood to adolescence and beyond. With each transition from one phase to another, we find ourselves saying good-bye to an old friend, the identity that we formed in order to move through that particular time.

Sometimes we form these identities in relationships or jobs, and when we shift those areas of our life become unsettled. Usually, if we take the time to look into the changing surface of things, we will find that a shift is taking place within us. For example, we may go through one whole chapter of our lives creating a protective shell around ourselves because we need it in order to heal from some early trauma. One day, though, we may find ourselves feeling confined and restless, wanting to move outside the shelter we needed for so long; the new part of ourselves cannot be born within the confines of the shell our old self needed to survive.

We may feel a strange mixture of exhilaration and sadness as we say good-bye to a part of ourselves that is dying and make way for a whole new identity to emerge in its place. We may find inspiration in working with the image of an animal who molts or sheds in order to make way for new skin, fur, or feathers to emerge. For example, keeping a duck feather, or some other symbol of transformation, can remind us that death and rebirth are simply nature’s way of evolving. We can surrender to this process, letting go of our past self with great love and gratitude, and welcoming the new with an open mind and heart, ready for our next phase of life.

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  1. nubianikigai says:

    I feel as if this blog was written for me. I have been going through this process for a while now, and the image I have is of one breaking out of an eggshell or a tree shedding old bark in order to grow.

    I am grateful for people like yourself, who write such poingant testimony. I feel less isolated and unique. I know that what I am going through is aslo being experienced by others and I somehow feel like less of a monster.

    I am moved by the touching way in which I am invisiblely spurred on toward grateness and in so driven to testify to others of my own personal struggles, overcomings and growth. Healing is indeed possible.

    Anyone can heal from any past trauma. It will take time, a lot of love, and a lot of surrendering. But with a little bit of willingness, the splender and reward of the body and soul healing itself will show the true miracle of life.

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  2. Lorenzo says:

    I hope that you are well and having an amazing year so far. We are in the planning phase for the Ujima Men’s Collective Conference, October 22-24, 2021 here in Fort Lauderdale, Florida at the Fort Lauderdale Westin Hotel and we are seeking sponsors. We have included a google document to complete with all needed information. Please if you have any questions do not hesitate to contact me.

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