My BF won’t stop touching my dick. What began as a charming quirk has become a neurotic fixation and a living nightmare for me. My sweet-as-cherry-pie boyfriend of several years has a bit of an anxiety problem, and it brings him comfort to just hold my flaccid penis in his hand. He’s always done this, with my enthusiastic permission, every now and then after sex and in other intimate situations. But now that we’re both in quarantine and working from home, he literally never wants to stop holding my penis. It’s become a near constant element in my life. I never get to wear clothes any more. My cock must be exposed at all times. I get that this is a tough time mental-health-wise, but his hand has become like flesh chastity belt. Please advise.

Have you ever been in this situation?

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?

One Comment Add yours

  1. nubianikigai says:

    I’ve never been in such a situation, but I’ve had similar feelings of comfort that does come from meerling thinking about the penis, and this is non sexual. I can assure you. When I think of penis I get a sense of serenity, calm, reassurance and security.

    If I were you I’d try to remember exaclty when this touching all started outside the bedroom. You mentioned quaranteen, I know personally that it’s a time of anxiety and nervoueness for many. Try to find out what is making him so nervous or uneasy

    I think of young kids cuddling their blankets because its a source of warmth and comfort. Your penis maybe provinding him those same feelings.

    If its some sort of consolation, at least he’s grabbing on to your beautiful manhood and not someone elses…..

    Good luck to you both…

    All my love and best wishes


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