I’m not a happy bottom. I’m thicc in all the right ways, and men tell me that my ass is more addictive than most narcotics. However, the man whom I currently allow to top me has one little gripe that may soon ruin or relationship. And let’s just say, I’m not ready to say goodbye to this cock. So here’s the issue, when I’m getting fucked in the ass, I generally am NOT hard, and if I am, it doesn’t last for long. I don’t know why, but this has always been the case. Obviously, I’m still enjoying it, but my partner wants to me to cum at the same time as him, and I, as a rule, cum afterwards. Is this a case of an unstoppable force meeting an immovable object?

Have you ever been in this situation?

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?

One Comment Add yours

  1. nubianikigai says:

    Hi there.
    I’ve read your letter twice, just to make sure I get where your coming from and see how best, my own experience could be of comfort…

    Well, in the beginning when I just stated bottoming, I would also cum after my partners. For me it wasn’t rule per say but more of me not being topped as I’d like…(lol) What I mean is that the guys were real nice, gentle, sweet, charming, but they weren’t doing it my way. So my pleasure always came after they cummed. I’d masterbate, because I’d basically cry If they didn’t make me cum.

    From experience, I’ve leanred to time my partner, If the ass is sweet, tops usually cum real quick, so I masturbated while being topped, that way, either I cummed before him, that way I’d not feel left out, or say that I’m about to blow, that way he’d be ready.

    I don’t know your sex routine, but personally, I like it really, really slow, as my body takes a really long time to get warmed up, as the orgasm cums from across the ocean, as I put it. maybe you need to be really warmed up, so spend a bit more time on foreplay.
    Have him spend a little more time playing with your body, that will allow you to get even more excited and so urge the cum a bit quicker as you ‘ll fell as if you just wanna blow and bust nut.


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