
Every time you see a couple, you canât help feeling both happy for them and jealous of them. After all, you have been looking for that special someone for as long as you can remember. There is no doubt that you are very happy and capable of living on your own. But if you could choose, you definitely would want to share your wonderful life with that special someone and grow old together.
But after so many heartbreaks, disappointments and even being cheated on, you start losing hope of ever finding âThe Oneâ. Youâre torn between keeping looking for him or just giving up now.
Have you ever thought that someone out there, in this big wide world, has been looking for you too? Because to him, youâre his âThe Oneâ. Heâs trying to find his way to get to you. Heâs very frustrated as you are and probably almost gave up so many times. But he knows that youâre out there. He knows that youâre the one that would make the search worthwhile. So, heâs still trying. He still goes on dates and puts himself out there with the hope of finding you.
So, I donât want you to give up. Life would be so boring and mundane if you donât have hope. Keep going. So what if you are going to have another disappointment, another heartbreak, or another ugly cry.
Just because it doesnât last doesnât mean it wasnât worth your while.
Just live your life⌠keep doing what makes you happy, try new hobbies that you havenât done before, go on a solo vacation to recharge, anything to enrich your life. Go on a date if you want to. If that doesnât work out, think of it as youâre one date closer to meet him. All you can do is to make sure you and your life are ready for whatever opportunity comes your way. Youâre clear about what youâre looking for in the person who is worthy of you. Whatever you do, you canât just sit around binge-watching Game of Thrones and expecting him to just knock on your door. There is a very slim chance that heâs stopping by to join you. So, go out there and live your life. When you finally let go of the expectation and frustration, trust me, youâll feel lighter. Youâll feel relieved and be able to focus more on what is important to you at the moment. Itâs a very beautiful feeling.
I canât guarantee that you two will find each other tomorrow, next month, or even next year.
But I do believe that life has a perfect plan for you. It always does.
Stop being frustrated and trying to fix everything on a certain timeline. Life doesnât always go as planned. Accept that certain things just happen the way they do and you have totally no control over it. Let it go. Heâll finally find you when the time is right⌠when you both are ready for each other. Because everything always happens at the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Love is not something we can force to happen. It might be discouraging to wait for love, but itâs definitely more exhausting to look for it.
If the time is right, even when youâre doing nothing, itâll find you.
He will find you. Heâll show you how being âThe Oneâ feels like, the same way youâll show him. Thatâs when you both realize your relationship canât be more perfect.