I am monogamous now, but in the past relationships I have messed around with other men. I have my 21^st birthday coming up and I have this weird birthday fantasy: I want to get gang banged by multiple guys at once. I really feel like it’s something I need to do and this milestone birthday feels like a good time. The only problem is I don’t know how to tell my boyfriend. He knows about my BDE and can satisfy me like no other, but I don’t know how he would handle it if I asked about doing this thing. I want his permission, but part of me thinks maybe it’s better to keep it to myself. He probably wouldn’t ever find out or care and I would obviously use protection. What should I do?

Have you ever been in this situation?

What are your thoughts?

What advice would you give this person?