PRIDE, LOVE & GAY MEN

Finding a fuckbuddy, a hookup, making friends are all easier than finding love during pride month. Am I right? To find love, not only you need to be attracted to the person physically, but also mentally and sometimes even spiritually! During pride month, I feel it is even harder than any other time (depending on…

¿WHY CAN’T GAY MEN COMMUNICATE?

There’s a common misconception that gay men can’t hold down a relationship or that they jump from boyfriend to boyfriend always looking for the next best thing. We of course know that’s not true. Many gay men are in long-term relationships, have civil partnerships or are married. However, I find that the most common misconception…

ANYTHING THAT MOVES: GAY MEN & DATING…

“Anything That Moves”—is the reputed three-word philosophy of most of us gay men in terms of dating. When you “gay date” there is a perception that as a gay guy you can have whomever you want, whenever you want, and for whatever motive. BUT this is rarely true. When you throw a look or smile at…

¿ARE YOU THE GAY MAN OTHERS THINK YOU ARE?

Do you see yourself as the gay man others think you are? Many of us have the ability to bypass our wounded selves and see what our essence is. Are you connected with your essence? Do you own the qualities others see in you, or do you define yourself by your wounded self? Is there…

BE A CATCH FOR HIM…

Sometimes you meet a guy and you hit it off. Best moment in your life, you’re even stuck asking where have this man been all this time? It’s so perfect, you drop all other guys and communication for him. He shows tons of interest in you and you think you found bae. You give him…

🍆 IT’S ALL ABOUT THE ‘BBC’ 🍆

Size generally matters in the gay meat market, regardless of racial considerations, but when the curiosity and expectations so often attached to dark meat raises the ick factor, how does one determine their level of grotesque? Why are gay black men objectified so much? Ask most gay black men and they’d tell you how they…

BETWEEN A ‘DADDY’ & A ‘TWINK’

The gay world typically has a life cycle that goes a little something like this…You start off as a twink, you end up as a daddy. Which means that in your 30s, you’re in no man’s land. While there can be deviations along the way, the trajectory for the most part, is set in stone….

D!CK PICS…🍆

Are your dick pics getting him into your bed? Many gay men aren’t getting hard over dick pics. Are you one of those men? Do you drool over a dick pic or do say no thanks and keep it moving?