GAY MEN, MONOGAMY & THE LURE OF OPEN RELATIONSHIPS…

For centuries, heterosexual people have defined what relationships are. It started out as a type of possession: “I own you.” Hardly anchored in love, was it? And yet, this is the model that most of the human race has embraced for hundreds of years. Only in the last century or so has marriage begun to…

GAY MEN & THE SHINY PENNY SYNDROME

Shiny Penny Syndrome occurs when you’re dating a man that can’t keep his eyes off someone else. Like, how dare you have kissable lips and abs that it is distracting my boyfriend? The problem in the gay community is that there’s always someone hotter, younger and fitter. Modern dating only adheres to that notion. We…

GAY & POLYAMOROUS…

Have you ever wondered how we became the society we are today? We grew up believing in the principles of family, passed on through generations: two people get together as a couple, later getting married and reproducing – an heterosexual normative that has always been backed by society’s constitutional laws. Gay people have forever been…

LOVE IN THE WORLD OF LIKES

The internet and social media–as I’m sure you are well aware–have radically changed the way we meet our romantic partners. But also to a more subtle degree, these things have affected what it even means to be in a relationship. Undeniably, sex and hookups are easier than ever now. But in this new infrastructure predicated…

GAY MEN, HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS & CHEATING…

It turns out, even people in happy marriages cheat. While many people might think most gay men cheat on their partners because they no longer love them, that isn’t necessarily the truth. Do you think gay men cheat because they are in unhappy relationships?

¿THE RIGHT GUY, THE WRONG TIME?

Sometimes we think we’ve found the perfect guy. When in reality it wasn’t the right time or guy for us. I believe that finding love is a task; not everybody can end up with the man.  What we think is meant to be isn’t always actual going to be. I don’t like to force things….

¿ARE YOU AWAKE?

Are you fully present and awake in your life? Are you aware of what’s going on around you and of your own behaviour? And would you know if you weren’t?

MYTH OR REALITY (THE IDEAL MAN)

What are the qualities you are looking for in a partner/husband/boyfriend? Do you have a yardstick for choosing the right person for you?   What do you think makes a person special? What are the basic and ideal qualities that he must have?