🍆 IT’S ALL ABOUT THE ‘BBC’ 🍆

Size generally matters in the gay meat market, regardless of racial considerations, but when the curiosity and expectations so often attached to dark meat raises the ick factor, how does one determine their level of grotesque? Why are gay black men objectified so much? Ask most gay black men and they’d tell you how they…

BETWEEN A ‘DADDY’ & A ‘TWINK’

The gay world typically has a life cycle that goes a little something like this…You start off as a twink, you end up as a daddy. Which means that in your 30s, you’re in no man’s land. While there can be deviations along the way, the trajectory for the most part, is set in stone….

D!CK PICS…🍆

Are your dick pics getting him into your bed? Many gay men aren’t getting hard over dick pics. Are you one of those men? Do you drool over a dick pic or do say no thanks and keep it moving?

¿WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER?

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. So tell me what are the things that tell you, ‘oh this relationship is done?’

GAY MEN & HAPPINESS…

You spend long nights wide awake, wandering around your home, wondering what you are missing in my life. But can you blame yourself for feeling this way? How could you be ungrateful when, an amazing career or a successful business, and even the perfect house? Many of us grew up with the conviction that college,…

¿WHY DO OPEN RELATIONSHIPS LEAVE SUCH A BAD TASTE IN MOUTHS OF GAY MEN?

Can you love someone but fuck another guy? The answers to  such a question would be mixed, with some calling gay men in open relationships greedy and selfish while others will say it’s up to people in relationships to define what their relationships are. Whether you think being in open to open relationships comes with…

GAY MEN & THE ‘HOE’ MANAGEMENT STRUGGLE

  We’ve all heard the phrase, “With great beauty comes great responsibility” and if you can’t handle that, then you just end up a hoe. We all know someone who’s totally stunning, but has a hoop like a calamari ring. Yes, the key adjective… is ‘battered’. As gay men, we understand the need for validation,…

NEW RELATIONSHIPS & CHRISTMAS GIFTS…

Christmas is about spending time with love ones and buying gifts, but what about that guy you just started dating? How long should you be dating someone before you buy him a gift for Christmas? Is this something reserved for only serious relationships, or would you do it because it is Christmas?

GAY MEN, GRINDR & HIV…

“You’re vile.” “What the f*ck’s wrong with you? Why are you on here with your disease?” “You should be ashamed, you’re a walking disease.” These are just a few of the things HIV-positive gay men have reported hearing from other gay men on Grindr. Do you think HIV-positive men should be Grindr looking for connections?…