🗣¿IS DATING STILL A THING?👂🏽

What are you looking for right now? Are you looking for a regular fuck buddy, a friend, are you, perhaps looking for someone with whom you can have a long-term relationship with, or maybe you are looking for a one-night stand? I ask these questions because many seem to think that gay dating is just…

🤔 DO F*CKBOYS FALL IN LOVE? 🥰

The long answer is: if the fuckboy fucks around long enough, he eventually falls—and even then, it’s complicated. No matter how much he fights and wrestles with it, if it’s powerful enough, it will roll even her under the waves. The fuckboy who is accustomed to riding the wave realizes that if he’s gonna wipe…

👍🏽 EMBRACING, NOT JUST ACCEPTING AGEING 😊

As another birthday approaches, I feel happier and healthier than ever. I’ve gone from accepting ageing to actually embracing, heck even looking forward to it! I mean, why should I succumb to the media-led, youth-obsessed culture we live in that seeks to only canonise the newest, latest and freshest? If I were to limit myself…

🍆 ¿ARE WE WIRED FOR MONOGAMY? 🍑

Cuffing season, autumn flings, pop culture and peer pressure often make us feel as though love, sex, and relationships are all supposed to happen to everyone at a prescribed time and in just the right order. And when they don’t, the problem isn’t that one-size-fits-all relationship boxes are silly, it’s that you must be doing…

MYTH OR REALITY (THE IDEAL MAN)

What are the qualities you are looking for in a partner/husband/boyfriend? Do you have a yardstick for choosing the right person for you?   What do you think makes a person special? What are the basic and ideal qualities that he must have?

MISSED CONNECTIONS…

Has a guy ever flirted with you, hinted he liked you, but then for some reason or other you totally missed it only to realize that sometime later that the poor guy was actually trying to ask you out? Do you have any missed signal/missed connection stories to share?