🤔 DO F*CKBOYS FALL IN LOVE? 🥰

The long answer is: if the fuckboy fucks around long enough, he eventually falls—and even then, it’s complicated. No matter how much he fights and wrestles with it, if it’s powerful enough, it will roll even her under the waves. The fuckboy who is accustomed to riding the wave realizes that if he’s gonna wipe…

👍🏽 EMBRACING, NOT JUST ACCEPTING AGEING 😊

As another birthday approaches, I feel happier and healthier than ever. I’ve gone from accepting ageing to actually embracing, heck even looking forward to it! I mean, why should I succumb to the media-led, youth-obsessed culture we live in that seeks to only canonise the newest, latest and freshest? If I were to limit myself…

🍆 ¿ARE WE WIRED FOR MONOGAMY? 🍑

Cuffing season, autumn flings, pop culture and peer pressure often make us feel as though love, sex, and relationships are all supposed to happen to everyone at a prescribed time and in just the right order. And when they don’t, the problem isn’t that one-size-fits-all relationship boxes are silly, it’s that you must be doing…

MYTH OR REALITY (THE IDEAL MAN)

What are the qualities you are looking for in a partner/husband/boyfriend? Do you have a yardstick for choosing the right person for you?   What do you think makes a person special? What are the basic and ideal qualities that he must have?

MISSED CONNECTIONS…

Has a guy ever flirted with you, hinted he liked you, but then for some reason or other you totally missed it only to realize that sometime later that the poor guy was actually trying to ask you out? Do you have any missed signal/missed connection stories to share? 

5 MYTHS ABOUT GAY MONOGAMY

I think gay monogamy is a little misunderstood, especially by gay men themselves. However, this isn’t a ‘Why gay monogamy is better than…’ article. While this article discusses 5 myths about gay monogamy, I’d like to start by saying that I’m not going to, or even trying to, portray open relationships in a bad light. Not at…

GAY MEN (STAY)

So if you are in love today or are looking for a love that will stay with you through it all in this life, make sure you look for a guy just like this: Stay with the guy who will call you at 3 am after a fight just to make sure you sleep okay so you…

7 THINGS GAY MEN NOTICE THE FIRST TIME THEY SLEEP OVER…

What do gay men notice when sleeping at your place? Nervous about having a guy you really like over to your home for the first time? Whether you’re hooking up post-date or just having a casual hangout with your crush, the feeling is mutual. Gay men tend to worry plenty about a number of things…

MALE SEX WORK & THE GAY COMMUNITY’S JUDGEMENT…

Few professions are as misunderstood, disparaged and infamous as that of the world’s oldest profession – sex work. Male sex work in particular, has its own unique challenges. In reality, the profiles of male sex workers are nearly as varied those of their clients, encompassing a wide range of personalities, needs and lifestyle. Male sex…