RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 12, EPISODE 5 – “GAY’S ANATOMY”

I know it’s not possible, but words can’t describe how badly I want to see a Ru-sical devoted to Tiger King. I mean, come on. If they tackle it, it won’t be for like two more seasons, and by then it will seem overplayed and obvious and unfunny. Like most of last night’s challenge. Even I’m…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 12, EPISODE 4 – “THE BALL BALL”

As we gather to watch and discuss this week’s Drag Race from our homes, let’s not forget all the LGBTQ entertainers, bartenders and nightlife staff that are already being hit hard. If you can, order a T-shirt, buy a gift certificate and contribute to bars’ online fundraisers so we have places we can go back…

7 SAVVY & SUCCESSFUL TIPS FOR GAY DATING (& SEX) IN THE 21st CENTURY

Amy Winehouse famously sang, “Love is a losing game”, and she didn’t even have Grindr. With an interest in casual sex and random encounters at an all-time peak, and a dwindling social scene those words have never been truer. Sure, there’s still a large portion of us craving love in a more traditional sense, but…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 12, EPISODE 1 – “I’M THAT BITCH”

You’re not alone in thinking something felt oddly familiar about the first episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race new season. No, I’m not talking about the customary workroom entrances or Ru’s wig. For starters, the season is doing a two-part premiere, similar to season six. That was a particularly strong season, including queens like BenDeLaCreme, Adore Delano, Courtney…

THIS IS WHY VALENTINE’S DAY MATTERS, EVEN IF YOU’RE SINGLE…

No holiday has garnered as much skepticism as Valentine’s Day. And I’ll start out by saying I have no disillusionment about changing that fact with a blog post. Nonetheless, as someone who has dedicated their career to studying love and relationships, I do think we’re a bit too down on what is supposed to be…

DON’T HATE ON LOVE – IMPROVING OUR VIEW OF VALENTINE’S DAY

I am a sucker when it comes to Valentine’s Day. The balloons, the candlelit dinners, the lovey-dovey messages…they all totally get my heart beating. Yes, I love this holiday that’s filled with chocolate heart boxes, cupid-shaped cards, and stunning red roses. In fact, I turn to utter mush when it comes to anything romance. Romance…

HAPPINESS…

Some day, sometime, something’s going to make you wonder where ‘happiness’ has gone! You will wonder why one has to be here and endure events that had better be avoided and, never happened. To know joy, the opposite must be there to draw a contrast and resonance. What unhappiness was created by our own misjudgments…

5 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T LET OTHER GAY GUYS SHAME YOU INTO

Being a part of a bustling gay community can be a bitch sometimes because it feels as if you were back in high school, where it was so difficult to make friends that you were ready to do anything in order to fit in and be liked. Of course, not every boy back then could…

10 BRILLIANT ANSWERS TO ‘WHY ARE YOU SINGE?’

So, why are you still single?  How often do you get asked this question guys and how do you answer friends and family members when they ask you this? We are talking about this topic because we hear this question often enough during family and high school/college reunions or even during intimate gatherings with friends…

10 PROBLEMS GUYS WITH BIG ASSES WILL UNDERSTAND

If you have a larger-than-life backside, you understand how difficult it can be to admit that you struggle with someone most twinks claim they would “kill for.” Having a big ass can be a full-time curse, and while your flat friends may be envious here are 10 problems anyone with a donk can relate to….