WHY YOU NEED TO BECOME THE MAN OF YOU OWN DREAMS

You’ll never be able to date anyone else if you can’t date yourself first. Our dreams seem to be on an invisible axis, tilting to and fro until they land in a place closest to our hearts. Sometimes we force it; other times we’re afraid it’ll land somewhere dark so we’ll try and spin forever….

HOW TO MAKE GAY SEX MEAN SOMETHING, AGAIN

It’s easy get caught up in the sex scene, honey. I remember when I first downloaded Grindr—I was hooked on my phone for months. I’m not gonna have a high brow… I was addicted to it. But there comes a time when we all have to know when to log off permanently. Sex can easily…

¿WHY ARE GAY MEN AFRAID OF NUDITY?

Nudity is something that is worshiped in gay culture. In the gayborhoods, a bar isn’t a bar unless you have at least two half-naked dancers on the tops of tables. Though body worship is widespread, is it an act of idolization rather than self-want? We’d much rather someone else show their nipples than for us…

10 THINGS SINGLE GAY GUYS ARE SICK OF HEARING

Single gay guys don’t want your pity. Hell, they don’t even want your help most of the time. It might surprise you to know that many of us are happy and don’t need a boyfriend or husband to define our self-worth, but chances are you probably won’t believe us no matter how many times we…

WHY GAY GUYS ARE AFRAID OF NUDITY

Nudity is something that is worshiped in gay culture. In the gayborhoods, a bar isn’t a bar unless you have at least two half-naked dancers on the tops of tables. Though body worship is widespread, is it an act of idolization rather than self-want? We’d much rather someone else show their nipples than for us…

15 THINGS ALL GAY GUYS SHOULD STOP DOING TO THEMSELVES

No one is a saint. I can vouch for that. But the world as a whole is slowly accepting that gay people are, in fact, alive, well, and becoming less afraid to show their true colors. With that comes a greater responsibility. Too often gay guys are becoming their own worst enemy, turning social perception…

TO GAY MEN WHO THINK THEY’LL BE FOREVER ALONE

A friend once told me the only kind of gay men I attracted were lost boys that needed someone to look after them. For years, my “type” of men didn’t exist. I made them up in my head. My ideal mate was only inside fairy tales or black and white movies, until one day I…

ACCEPTING THE FACT THAT A HOT MAN LIKES YOU

It comes at no surprise that the world trains us to be insecure. Everywhere we go we see tons of pictures of guys flexing, bending over, selling products and making us believe we want them – yes, even on sites like this. Never in a million years do we ever think that it could actually…

¿WHY ARE GAY MEN AFRAID OF KISSING DURING A ONE NIGHT STAND?

One-night stands are always an awkward thing to talk about, especially when you’re already known to be a little promiscuous. If you’ve read any of my articles, you’ll know that I’m not exactly a saint when it comes to sex. Hell, I’d be surprised if most bars in the greater LA area didn’t have me on…