¿DO YOU BAREBACK?

“Do you bareback?” is a phrase I have heard so many times now I reckon it’s up there with how many times Adele’s album is being played round the world this second. I’m a HIV-negative guy (as far as I know from my last test!) who really wants to get to the bottom of why…

¿WHY ARE HIV-NEGATIVE MEN STILL CHOOSING STIGMA?

A recent study confirms that fear of HIV continues to trump scientific knowledge of the virus. According to a recent study in the Journal of the International AIDS Society, a disturbingly high amount of HIV-negative gay men doubt the veracity of the statement “Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U).” If you haven’t heard that motto before, it’s pretty simple. People living with HIV…

HIV: ¿HOW DO WE MOVE OUR HEARTS & MINDS?

HIV ad campaigns, whether encouraging people to get tested, treated, or learn about PrEP presumably want to encourage people to take action, but they rarely capture what actually motivates gay men.   As our community brainstorms how future efforts could better educate gay men, we must draw from past failures and successes in social marketing, and…

📧 JUS’ E-MAIL ME: 💦 PrE(P)ARATION 🍆 FOR SEX…🍑

My boyfriend wants to fuck me raw.  Though he hasn’t said it yet, eventually he will. Right now, however, he is just a tapestry of hints and subtleties. He asks me if he can just put the head in. He says he just wants to loosen me before slipping on the condom. I flinch as…

WHAT WORLD AIDS DAY MEANS IN 2020

This year has seen the world grapple with a new pandemic, but World AIDS Day, observed December 1 every year since 1988, is a reminder that an earlier one hasn’t gone away. Approximately 1.2 million people in the U.S. are living with HIV today, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, based on 2018…

❤️ LOVE N’ DATING IN TIMES OF HIV (STILL) 🤨

Many of HIV’s limitations are limitations that we impose on ourselves. The pool of available dating material, for instance, doesn’t have to be limited to only other HIV-positive partners. If you’re HIV-positive, sure, some  people will be frightened away by HIV, but there are HIV negative people out there willing to overlook an HIV status….

HEY GAY MEN: ¿WHY IS HIV/AIDS IS STILL A ‘GAY THING’?

We’re all typical gay men to some degree. We enjoy partying, social meet ups, new friends and of course lots and lots of sex. Show me a gay man who hasn’t had a one night stand in their time and I would be very surprised. For many of us one night stands are a time…