BEING YOUR OWN GAY VOICE OF REASON

How we attach meaning to events in our lives has a large influence on the quality of our life. The meaning we assign to our experiences–whether pleasant or distressing, is a very powerful factor in determining the quality of our lives. What we imagine events to mean will color the way we feel about ourselves,…

DISCOVERING YOUR TRUE GAY SELVES…

The soul is the purest expression of an individual and is not bound by physical forms or fleeting emotions. When we want to see deeply into the heart and mind of another person, soul seeing. Soul seeing is a way of looking past shapes, sizes, attitudes, and behavior to see the real individual that lies…

PLAYING YOUR PART (THE GAY ILLUSION)

Having the wisdom to know that life is but a dream does not mean that we ignore living. As children, most of us sang that mesmerizing, wistful lullaby that ends with the words, “Life is but a dream.” This is a classic example of a deep, sophisticated truth hiding, like an underground stream, in an…

BEING NAKED AS THE DAY YOU WERE BORN

There is a freedom in being naked that few enjoy because we have been learned to be embarrassed. For most of us, it is probably difficult to remember the last time we were comfortably naked for a period of time longer than 20 minutes or so. Many of us are only naked for the length…

EDIT YOUR LIFE…

You have the choice to accept the life script you’ve written thus far or edit it so you create a life that fulfills you. Our lives can be compared to an ongoing movie script over which we have complete creative control. Within us lies the power to examine what works or isn’t working in our…

WE ARE ALL GAY-NNECTED

There are times when we may feel disconnected from the gay world.  Our actions can seem like they are of no major consequence, and we may feel like we exist in our own vacuum.  Yet, the truth is that our simplest thought or action – the decisions we make each day, and how we see…

DEEPER MEANING…LETTING GO OF UNDERSTANDING IN THE COMMUNITY

It is not always for us to know, the deeper meaning of everything that occurs in our life. All of us who seek to be connected and aware regard our experiences as teachers, and we try to discern what lessons we are learning from the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes the lesson is…

WHEN THE COMMUNITY DOORS OPEN (WALKING THROUGH)

Our lives are the result of all the doors we have walked through, and our continued growth depends on our willingness to keep moving into new spaces. When the door of the community opens, walk through it. Trust that the door has opened for a reason and you have been guided to it. Sometimes we…

DEEPER MEANING…LETTING GO OF UNDERSTANDING IN THE COMMUNITY

It is not always for us to know, the deeper meaning of everything that occurs in our life. All of us who seek to be connected and aware regard our experiences as teachers, and we try to discern what lessons we are learning from the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes the lesson is…

MAKING THE COMMUNITY WORK FOR YOU…

When we experience change in our life, we can control our response and reaction to the changes that are happening. Transformation is a universal constant that affects our lives from the moment we are born until we leave this earthly existence behind. At the root of all growth, we find change. Occasionally, change and the…