¿WHAT IS YOUR PARTNERSHIP WITH THE GAY COMMUNITY?

In partnerships we can harness the power of union. The purpose of partnership is to create something greater than we can create alone.  Not because of any deficiency or incompleteness in us, but because each of us is unique, with our own talents and abilities, and in partnership we increase the efforts and talents available…

REALLY LIVING WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY…

When we continually live our life with a safety net it creates a barrier to our freedom. As we create the life of our dreams, we often reach a crossroads where the choices seem to involve the risk of facing the unknown versus the safety and comfort of all that we have come to trust….

BEING STRONG GAY MEN (POWERING YOUR ‘PANTHER’ ENERGIES)

What makes a gay man confident is his ability to call upon his masculine/feminine wisdom. So often in our world we tend to think of strength as a quality that arises from a place of firm determination and a will to succeed no matter the cost. Even though we might want to think of a…

HELPING THE GAY COMMUNITY EVERYDAY…

We can all vow to make the gay community  a better place one day at a time by being our true authentic selves. Each of us is more than capable of helping the gay community, despite our fears and limitations and the uncertainty that holds us back. It is commonly accepted that it is impossible…

BEING ALONE: A RELATIONSHIP WITH SELF…

The most important relationship we will ever have in our life is with our own self. The most important relationship we have in our lives is with our selves. And even though we are the only ones who are present at every moment of our lives–from birth onward–this relationship can be the most difficult one…

ENDING THE ‘TYPICAL’ GAY CYCLE(S)…

Each day offers us an opportunity to renew our resolve to the universe that we are ready for change. One of the hardest things in life is feeling stuck in a situation that we don’t like and want to change. We may have exhausted ourselves trying to figure out how to make change, and we…

MOVING THROUGH DARKNESS…

Often it takes something major to wake us up as we struggle to maintain an illusion of control. In life, most of us want things to go to the places we have envisioned ourselves going. We have plans and visions, some of them divinely inspired, that we want to see through to completion. We want…

TIMING IS EVERYTHING (WHERE YOU NEED TO BE WITHIN THE QUEER COMMUNITY)

Since human timetables quite often do not correspond with gay community’s timetables, it’s common for many queer people to feel that life is progressing too slowly or too quickly. We draft carefully composed plans only to find that they fall into place when we least expect. Or, conversely, we are thrust into roles we believe…

THE GAY EFFECT…

The impact you have on the world is greater than you could ever imagine, and the choices you make affect the whole.   In a world of billions people, it’s easy to believe that the only way to initiate profound transformation is to take extreme action. Each of us, however, carries within us the capacity…

BEING YOUR OWN GAY VOICE OF REASON

How we attach meaning to events in our lives has a large influence on the quality of our life. The meaning we assign to our experiences–whether pleasant or distressing, is a very powerful factor in determining the quality of our lives. What we imagine events to mean will color the way we feel about ourselves,…