My BF won’t stop touching my dick. What began as a charming quirk has become a neurotic fixation and a living nightmare for me. My sweet-as-cherry-pie boyfriend of several years has a bit of an anxiety problem, and it brings him comfort to just hold my flaccid penis in his hand. He’s always done this,…

I’m not brave enough to show my face or reveal my name but I’m brave enough to speak up about something I live every day to try to fix, even though it’s too late. I had a bestfriend who turned out to be gay. At that time in the 80s, gay meant that he was…

I’ve been dating a guy for a few months now and on Valentine’s Day, he’s hinted at us making a video. And not the G-rated either. Truthfully, I have mixed feelings about it. I mean I trust him but can you really ever trust anyone? Now he’s upset with me for not doing and said…

I’m dating two guys who are a couple. They’ve been together for six years & they’ve invited me to be a third in their relationship. As a thruple we’ve been together for a year and recently they decided to make our three-way relationship closed – to just the three of us. Which is great. I…

My hookups go something like this, we talk on Grindr, he comes over, we get undressed and do the business. ‘Then the guy would make small talk as we both got dressed and leaves. This makes me feel dirty and I even change the sheets and take a shower afterwards. I brush my teeth and…

I never planned to date a guy in an open relationship. It wasn’t that I was so gung-ho on monogamy, I just figured it wasn’t for me. I’m too jealous, can be needy and didn’t like the idea of being shared. Besides, everyone I knew growing up was monogamous. My parents. My grandparents. Their friends…

I met a guy at my gym a while ago. We added each other on FB and we chatted and texted for few weeks. We even met several times casually and one time for sex. I suggested to him that we should date and start being lovers since we had this great connection. He was…

As a gay man, have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell her outright, “sorry, I  play for the same team if you know what I mean.” Anyway, I’m asking because it happened to me. It got really awkward…

I have a weird issue. So, I’m really handsome, like, objectively, classically handsome. This isn’t me bragging, it’s just the facts. Everybody has been telling me this forever, and I believe them. And that means I meet a lot of men who are interested in me. But I can’t seem to hold onto any of…

‘Daddy’ is hot right now and I get that, but what’s up with men calling me ‘daddy’ during sex? Are men suddenly fantasizing about their fathers or older men? I get that fantasy in the porn world, but outside of porn land, I can’t seem to find the appeal. Has a man ever called you…