I never planned to date a guy in an open relationship. It wasn’t that I was so gung-ho on monogamy, I just figured it wasn’t for me. I’m too jealous, can be needy and didn’t like the idea of being shared. Besides, everyone I knew growing up was monogamous. My parents. My grandparents. Their friends…

I met a guy at my gym a while ago. We added each other on FB and we chatted and texted for few weeks. We even met several times casually and one time for sex. I suggested to him that we should date and start being lovers since we had this great connection. He was…

As a gay man, have you ever been asked out by a girl? If so, how did you handle it? Do you flirt back or do you tell her outright, “sorry, I  play for the same team if you know what I mean.” Anyway, I’m asking because it happened to me. It got really awkward…

I have a weird issue. So, I’m really handsome, like, objectively, classically handsome. This isn’t me bragging, it’s just the facts. Everybody has been telling me this forever, and I believe them. And that means I meet a lot of men who are interested in me. But I can’t seem to hold onto any of…

‘Daddy’ is hot right now and I get that, but what’s up with men calling me ‘daddy’ during sex? Are men suddenly fantasizing about their fathers or older men? I get that fantasy in the porn world, but outside of porn land, I can’t seem to find the appeal. Has a man ever called you…

If you were to ask anyone close to me, they’ll say I was a sexual deviant. But, the truth is, almost 100% of my past endeavours were at best unsatisfying and, in the past couple of years, also increasingly fleeting. It’s not because my encounters were necessarily ‘bad’ that my sex drive has decreased, it’s…

I surf the internet hoping to find a hot young male who could qualify as my full-time lover and playmate (LTR). I am a Silver Daddy who likes the magnificent beauty of a young Adonis and I find a 30 year age spread to be hot! The eye candy appeal intoxicates me and my animal…

I’ve just started having sex with this really great guy but I’m having a major problem with the size of his penis. Basically it’s gigantic. I haven’t measured it but it’s longer and wider than anything I’ve had in the past. I was totally shocked because he’s kind of short and he’s not that buff…

Growing up in a sexually repressed world, I was eager to lose my virginity. So few days ago, lying in bed, I turned to the man next to me I’d just had sex with and asked: ‘So does this mean I’ve lost my virginity?’ He laughed and replied ‘I’m afraid not.’ Leaving me asking, what…

My husband and I are talking about opening up our relationship. However, we’ve seen so many of our married friends run into trouble when they do this.  How can we explore our fantasies without wrecking a terrific relationship? Have you ever been in this situation?  What are your thoughts? What advice would you give this…