🌈 BEING GAY ISN’T… 🏳️‍🌈

Being gay isn’t some type of other man, you’re still a man, your sexual likes have nothing to do with your life beyond the bedroom, I’m not saying live in the closet but your sexuality doesn’t need to be an advertisement…..remember that!”

👨‍❤️‍👨 THE PEOPLE YOU DATE & SLEEP WITH 🛌

The people you date and sleep with are a reflection of you. If you think a “hook up” is just that, think again. The energy and mentality if just having sex or getting your nut will wear on you more then you know and that’s how you’ll be seen by those offering quality and long…

ENJOY LIFE JUST AS IT IS…

You pick up a self-help book, enthusiastically about to take in every word, but as you read you start to wonder: What does that writer hope for, exactly? Does he really believe those things? If so, does he think it’s going to get better?  Because I know a lot of us feel this way. Like that…

5 VALENTINES MYTHS DEBUNKED TO HELP YOU ACTUALLY ENJOY THE DAY

More than any other holiday, Valentine’s Day pushes people’s buttons. Some find it blatantly commercial, a lot of single folks think it’s a cruel reminder of their solo status while some lovebirds raise expectations and go wild over the romance it inspires only to come away disappointed. Whatever your position on the big day of love hoopla,…

¿CAN WE ACKNOWLEDGE OUR QUEER SELVES?

Most LGBTQ persons look for someone else to acknowledge them when they’re not acknowledging themselves, when all they really longing for is to be seen. To be validated. How doe we come to a place where only we and no one else can give us a sense of worth?  Can we actively choose to see…

PLACING GAY MEN ON PEDESTALS…

When you put other gay men on pedestals, you are giving away your power and saying you are not good enough. When we fall in love with someone or make a new friend, we sometimes see that person in a glowing light. Their good qualities dominate the foreground of our perception and their negative qualities….

THERE’S ONE PERSON WE’LL NEVER GET OVER…

Even long after the relationship dies and all connections perish, this person stays alive in our consciousness.  It’s not like we spend our entire day fantasizing about them or reminiscing. It’s not like our lives stopped when they left it. It’s not like we haven’t moved on—we might even be building a relationship with someone…

¿IS HE CHEATING? 7 WAYS TO TELL

Wondering if your partner is cheating on you can be the worst feeling ever. Being suspicious, not sure and fretful are not healthy ways to be in a relationship. So, how can you know for certain whether or not your partner is cheating on you?  1. He is hiding things from you If you’ve had…

¿TIRED OF CHASING HAPPINESS?

I’ve been taught that we cause our own stress whenever we want to be anywhere other than where we are. If it’s cold outside, we wish it was warmer, and when it’s hot, we want it cooler. It reminds me of what my uncle once said, “I just want one dollar more than I have,”…

TRAVEL: 5 TIPS WHEN TRAVELING FOR PRIDE

This month, Pride celebrations are happening all across the country and around the world, and there’s never been a better time for a gay traveler to go out there and explore. If you’re someone who’s looking to do some Pride-themed traveling and don’t know where to begin, there’s no need to look any further than…