SWIPE RIGHT: ¿ARE WE SECRETLY SABOTAGING OURSELVES?

Tell me: Do you actually want a relationship? What do you really need from a relationship? Do you have the time and bandwidth to give this a real, palpable shot? Or are you merely pursuing the idea of a “successful” relationship that’s informed by the media or your social circle? Have you already married a…

¿WHY DO WE STAY WITH MEN THAT DON’T ADD TO OUR VALUE?

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain A$$HOLES. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

WITH COVID-19 DISRUPTING EVERYTHING…

With the coronavirus outbreak dominating the news, causing widespread cancellations and postponements, it’s pretty hard to avoid hearing about it. In these uncertain times, it makes sense that people are looking for distractions. Unsurprisingly, one of the most popular ways to kill time for single people in 2020 is using dating apps. But while you swipe…

AGE DIFFERENCES IN RELATIONSHIPS…

Imagine you meet this guy; you both get along well, you start seeing each other often and going on dates. But there is one thing bothering you: there is a big age gap between you. You are in your early 20s and he is much older. Should/would you stop seeing him? Would a gap in…

¿WHICH MAN/KING ARE YOU?

A Man/King that needs to learn how to be a King? Or are you a mercenary with a crown? Is there a difference?

¿DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?

Love can be a very complicated thing. And with Valentine’s Day just hours away it can be hard to not focus on it. And with that in mind, I have questions for you, Do you love yourself? It can be a hard question to answer. You can answer “Yes”, “No” or “Maybe”. It doesn’t matter…

¿HOW WOULD YOU FIND OUT IF HE’S SINGLE?

Picture this scenario: you’re at a party, you meet a handsome guy, and you spend the entire evening talking to each other. You’re really hitting it off. You both like that one team and you both agree that wasabi peas are the perfect party snack. You want to marry him tomorrow. There’s just one tiny…