🍆 ¿ARE WE WIRED FOR MONOGAMY? 🍑

Cuffing season, autumn flings, pop culture and peer pressure often make us feel as though love, sex, and relationships are all supposed to happen to everyone at a prescribed time and in just the right order. And when they don’t, the problem isn’t that one-size-fits-all relationship boxes are silly, it’s that you must be doing…

¿CAN A.I. CREATE A MORE DIVERSE QUEER COMMUNITY?

The best pride organizer might just be the computer sitting on your desk. Think about it, artificial intelligence can go through all online profiles and find what the community really needs to offer a diverse balance month of pride. Most humans, on the other hand, will rely on biases — whether they are aware of…

¿DO YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT THOSE THAT ARE IMPACTED BY COVID?

In a relatively short time frame, many of us have faced several significant, unexpected losses and life changes, back-to-back: Losing family and friends to COVID. Financial uncertainty following job losses. Breaking ties with a loved one who repeatedly betrayed us.  To say that the experiences of 2020 is brutal is an understatement and enduring setback…

¿HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH TOXIC GAY-FRIEND-SHIPS?

Cherish your gay-friend-ships. Get rid of the bad ones. Don’t keep connections with men that drain the soul out of you. Life’s too short for all that, good friendships are too rare for all that, but no one ever tells you how to get rid the fruit flies that plague your life like a bowl…

¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE APPROACHING MEN?

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. Moreover it can be discouraging when you go out with friends and…

¿DO YOU LOVE YOUR D!@K?

Pretty much the only guys that have porn star sized penises are well, porn stars. The rest of us need to learn to love the penis we have. Penis size obsession is everywhere, and its amplified within the gay community. For something that we have relatively no control over (extreme surgical procedures aside), it takes…

RENAMING GAY PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Invariably each year, the question of the value of Gay Pride is raised and as Gay Pride Month draws to a close, it’s worth asking whether renaming Pride to Rights might better reflect what the whole month is actually about  What are your thoughts?

¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…