¿HOW DO YOU HANDLE APPROACHING MEN?

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. Moreover it can be discouraging when you go out with friends and…

¿DO YOU LOVE YOUR D!@K?

Pretty much the only guys that have porn star sized penises are well, porn stars. The rest of us need to learn to love the penis we have. Penis size obsession is everywhere, and its amplified within the gay community. For something that we have relatively no control over (extreme surgical procedures aside), it takes…

RENAMING GAY PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Invariably each year, the question of the value of Gay Pride is raised and as Gay Pride Month draws to a close, it’s worth asking whether renaming Pride to Rights might better reflect what the whole month is actually about  What are your thoughts?

¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…

PRIDE, LOVE & GAY MEN

Finding a fuckbuddy, a hookup, making friends are all easier than finding love during pride month. Am I right? To find love, not only you need to be attracted to the person physically, but also mentally and sometimes even spiritually! During pride month, I feel it is even harder than any other time (depending on…

¿WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST PRIDE EXPERIENCE LIKE?

The very first Gay Pride March was held on June 28, 1970 to mark the first anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, and over the decades the tone and tenor of the Pride March has changed. Nevertheless, it still has the power to inspire and empower the members of our community that need that extra push….

SWIPE RIGHT: ¿ARE WE SECRETLY SABOTAGING OURSELVES?

Tell me: Do you actually want a relationship? What do you really need from a relationship? Do you have the time and bandwidth to give this a real, palpable shot? Or are you merely pursuing the idea of a “successful” relationship that’s informed by the media or your social circle? Have you already married a…