Hot and heavy feelings of love don’t last forever. The closer you get to someone, the more settled you feel around them. This doesn’t mean your partner won’t do things that won’t disrupt the sense of ease, it just means that the majority of time, you feel secure. Shopping for socks together on a Saturday…

We all grew up hearing fairy tales about living happily ever after. But the fairy tale didn’t warn us that one day, when the relationship was no longer new and different, our magical romance would suddenly appear familiar and routine. Do you expect fireworks all the time, a constant attraction that never disappears, or one…

Ahh, the joy of online dating. Even though meeting guys on dating apps can be fun, most of us can admit they’re pretty annoying. A lot of us have had our hearts broken or have been ghosted by the guys we meet online. Just know that has nothing to do with you or your worth-…

Have you stayed up countless nights tossing and turning, considering what you were and weren’t getting from the person lying beside you? Have you ended (many) relationships on the gamble that there was someone better suited for you? Someone more artistic, someone more intellectual, someone more established, someone different… It isn’t crazy to have questions…

How good are you to hide your obviously gay desires? Where do your eyes gravitate?

They say a mind is a terrible thing to waste and when it comes to relationships, the games played can wreck havoc on the heart. What do you do when you are confused by your crush’s behaviour? How do you handle it when the person you’re dating was sending you mixed messages? Gotten to a…

Ghosting is a modern dating phenomenon that’s almost become a grim rite of passage. Ghosting is a toxic by-product of “the lack of accountability that people have to themselves and each other in the modern world of meeting.”  Isn’t it sad that as we’ve become more connected online, we’ve become more disconnected in real life? Doesn’t ghosting sucks for…

If you think about it, wanting to have sex with your ex is a sort of paradoxical desire — if you really want them, why didn’t you stay together? Shouldn’t this be the last person on your mind when it comes to one of the most intense forms of closeness there is? 

In life, you may not always be able to get what you want…but does that mean you should just give up trying to get what you want when it comes to relationships? It can be easy to fall into the pattern of setting aside your needs, settling for less than what you truly want, and…