Tell me: Do you actually want a relationship? What do you really need from a relationship? Do you have the time and bandwidth to give this a real, palpable shot? Or are you merely pursuing the idea of a “successful” relationship that’s informed by the media or your social circle? Have you already married a…

Is posting a sexy selfie on social media disrespectful to your other half?

Lets all stop and think for a moment about taking bae home for the first time to meet your family. It’s not easy for anyone. But what if your very conservative auntie then recognized him – from the hordes of gay porn she watches? (I know, I know, just go with me here) As you…

I’m grateful to know a lot of smart, capable gay men. Sadly, many of these smart, capable men have committed themselves to guys who are clueless, emotionally unavailable, or just plain A$$HOLES. How does this happen so often? Of course, gay men aren’t the only ones who deal with this phenomenon, this problem runs across…

Imagine you meet this guy; you both get along well, you start seeing each other often and going on dates. But there is one thing bothering you: there is a big age gap between you. You are in your early 20s and he is much older. Should/would you stop seeing him? Would a gap in…

A Man/King that needs to learn how to be a King? Or are you a mercenary with a crown? Is there a difference?

Would you avoid dating someone who lived with their ex?

Picture this scenario: you’re at a party, you meet a handsome guy, and you spend the entire evening talking to each other. You’re really hitting it off. You both like that one team and you both agree that wasabi peas are the perfect party snack. You want to marry him tomorrow. There’s just one tiny…