¿DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?

Love can be a very complicated thing. And with Valentine’s Day just hours away it can be hard to not focus on it. And with that in mind, I have questions for you, Do you love yourself? It can be a hard question to answer. You can answer “Yes”, “No” or “Maybe”. It doesn’t matter…

¿HOW WOULD YOU FIND OUT IF HE’S SINGLE?

Picture this scenario: you’re at a party, you meet a handsome guy, and you spend the entire evening talking to each other. You’re really hitting it off. You both like that one team and you both agree that wasabi peas are the perfect party snack. You want to marry him tomorrow. There’s just one tiny…

GAY MEN, THE AGE GAP & RELATIONSHIPS…

Imagine you meet this guy; you both get along well, you start seeing each other often and going on dates. But there is one thing bothering you: there is a big age gap between you. You are in your early 40s/50s and he is much younger. Should/would you stop seeing him? Is there is nothing…

WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOUR FRIEND …

Falling for your friend can be one of the best, and worst, things that can happen. If it works out, you get to hang with your bestie all of the time, while exploring the newer, romantic side of your relationship. If they don’t feel the same, though, it can make a once-great friendship awkward beyond…

¿WHAT IS YOUR LONGEST RELATIONSHIP?

Never had one Less than 1 month 1 month to 3 months 3 months to 6 months 6 months to 1 year 1 year to 2 years 2 years to 5 years 5 years to 10 years 10 years to 20 years 20 years to 40 years 40 years +  

NEW RELATIONSHIPS & CHRISTMAS GIFTS…

Christmas is about spending time with love ones and buying gifts, but what about that guy you just started dating? How long should you be dating someone before you buy him a gift for Christmas? Is this something reserved for only serious relationships, or would you do it because it is Christmas?

¿IS GRINDR RACIST, OR ARE WE?

‘No fats, femmes, Asians or blacks? Well as many of us are those things, I guess that makes many us the Grindr anti-christ? This might not be something we all do, but far too many of us perpetuate this behavior and Grindr is the tool used in this modern gay life. So if the app…

¿WHEN’S AN IN/APPROPRIATE TIME TO FLIRT WITH A STRANGER?

There’s long been dialogue about when one should or shouldn’t flirt with someone. Whether they’re your trainer @ the gym or you spot them on public transport, when is the right time? Would you flirt with someone if they’re on public transport with their family? Would you hit on the newbie at work? It’s 7am….