What defines an actual “daddy” in the gay community now?  Is it one’s biological age? The type of behavior one exhibits when out and about or in the bedroom? A look that makes one want to submit to him?

One trait commonly associated with masculinity is the behaviour of seeking other male attention for approval. Think team sports, it’s all about dude-on-dude approval. But gay guys often strive to achieve a similar end, also regularly seeking validation from other men. The tactics may differ, however. Does that make gay men, by definition, hyper-masculine? Perhaps a…

Maybe this sounds familiar: You meet a guy, it goes well, so you go out. Then you go on another date, and another, and all of a sudden, a few months have passed, and you’re with someone who makes you smile. But there’s that nagging feeling: Is this too easy, asking yourself if you’re settling?…

Sexual consent has been a topic that’s been increasingly visible in the news and in the social consciousness. It’s not, of course, that sexual assault has suddenly become more of an issue — rather, we are seeing a rise in victims feeling safe enough to speak out publicly on a scale they never have before….

What is it with gay men and open relationships? Are they evidence that our relationships are as varied and individual as we are or proof that gay men have commitment issues? Should we live by our own rules and choices or are we greedy, selfish and promiscuous? And now that same sex couples can get married,…

Do you ever tire of seeing naked men or men in various ‘thirst trap’ positions? Why or why not?

Online sites are a huge part of dating today and so is creeping on social media, apparently. There’s no way our parents had to deal with the kind of games, nuances and unwritten rules of online dating we see today, but alas, that’s the way it goes. Nobody wants to come off as a creep…

Are you single, married, or in a (monogamous or non-monogamous) relationship? Moreover, are you the marrying kind? And what do you think about monogamous and non-monogamous relationship in general? Do you also want to get married someday or are you not the marrying type?