BUTTS…WHY ARE WE SO FASCINATED?

On the body of a gay man, there are many parts to love and cherish. A hot bod is a smorgasbord delicious meats. But a lot of people will actually self-identify based on their particular preference in body parts. I’m a Chest Guy. Or an Ab Man. Or a Ass Man. But aren’t we all…

SCROTOX FOR THOSE LOW HANGING B@!!S…

Do your balls hang low? Could ya tie ‘em in a bow? Are scrotums just as important to men as breast are to women? Would you have botox injections to give the boys a lift?

¿WHAT KIND OF TV SHOW IS YOUR LIFE LIKE?

Have you ever thought to yourself, man, my life should be filmed because I’m THAT interesting? Yeah, we all have. Don’t even lie to yourself about that. Even the most docile human has thought their nights in knitting was TV-worthy. So here’s the deal, since we all belong on the small screen in some way,…

¿WHAT DOES GAY PRIDE MONTH MAKE YOU FEEL?

If you’ve never given much thought to your sexuality and gender and how they shape your existence, it might be hard to understand how complicated, frustrating, and urgent it can feel to prideful about being queer. How does being queer give you a sense of pride during pride month? Does it make you feel… Extraordinary?…

¿HOW DOES ONE MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK?

So let’s say you found yourself a good one, he is giving, thoughtful, committed, and consistent and you’re happy together. It’s still going to take some work, right? Like a normal, sane amount of work to keep the relationship strong? I used to roll my eyes at the people who claimed they rarely argue and…

¿WHAT DATING ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO YOUR YOUNGER GAY SELF?

Some things you just learn with age, so I know what I would tell my younger self about navigating the world of dating men, how about you? What words of wisdom would impart to your younger self?  Don’t stay up late online looking for a hookup? Don’t be shy, you can totally have him? Confidence!…

¿WHAT THE F#@K IS KILLING GAY BARS & CLUBS?

Despite the vital role that bars have played throughout the modern LGBTQ movement, each year seems to bring more news of gay bars closing. But why? Is it that gay bars (and gayborhoods in general) are simply victims of the gay movement’s political success? It is that LGBTQ people have gained greater acceptance from their…