It has happened to me and I am proof that falling in love at first sight doesn’t happen just in rom-coms. It’s not just a lovely fantasy, it’s a real thing and I hope all of you   get to experience the funny sensation deep in the gut known as “butterflies in the stomach” upon meeting…

The coronavirus has completely transformed various aspects of everyday life, including the way we date. Case in point: recent studies have shown that ghosting may be becoming a thing of the past, people are now experimenting in bed far more than they did before, and a recent surge in “slow dating” suggests that everyone is…

Oftentimes the beloved bottoms of the gay community get a bum wrap. The hard work and dedication to maintain an ass at supreme fucking-conditions is a serious undertaking. In addition to being slept on (pun-intended), bottoms are also often considered more feminine, dainty, or otherwise submissive to tops, who are stereotypically perceived the opposite. Masc…

I’ve never had an open relationship – I think partly because that calls for a lot of communication and understanding of everyone involved and that doesn’t seem to be an easy thing to navigate. So tell me gents tell me – have you and your partner invited others into your relationship for than just sex?…

How many men have you dated based on the potential of what the relationship could be in the future? When they graduate from “blah blah” they will have the time and resources to invest in our relationship. When they achieve “this” and “that” they will be able to settle into their sense of self and…

If you’ve been on social media & dating apps for any amount of time, you will probably have had more than one person message you with just three letters: “Hey.” That may be exciting the first few times when you’re a newbie, but it quickly loses its appeal when dozens and dozens of strangers only…

Society, in general, has these firmly-held beliefs about gay people and the LGBTQ community in their head, of what they think we are like, and these stereotypical judgments can be quite challenging to face.  So why is it important to talk about and recognize stereotypes? Is it because stereotypes can be negative and breed homophobia, lesbophobia, gayphobia,…

Sliding into someone’s DMs is a very popular way to flirt nowadays. I believe that gay men created this, but I digress. With DMs being an unsolicited message, is sliding into someone’s inbox always a good idea? And if you ultimately decide to shoot your shot, is there a proper way to approach messaging someone…