TIPS FOR TOPS 🍆 WHO WANTS TO BOTTOM 🍑

When it comes to the subject of tops and bottoms, most gay guys seem set in their ways. Unless they’re vers, there’s very little movement from top to bottom or vice versa, pun intended. However, there are those tops who meet that special guy that makes them decide maybe it’s worth it to be the…

🍆 ¿DO YOU LIKE WATCHING MEN MASTURBATE? 💦

Are you a big fan of watching men masturbate? My reply to this question is NO! First of all, I am very picky and even when men turn me on, I find it a waste to just watch some guy jerk off. Now if it someone I had actual sex with then that’s different.  So…

YOUR BODY ON SEX…

For healthy, consenting adults, sex can be great or even mind-blowing. But getting busy with a partner can also have some legit benefits beyond our brainwaves. Read on for more reasons to get it on (as if we needed ‘em)! The good feelings swirling around the brain during sexy times are due to brain chemistry,…

¿DO YOU ENJOY HAVING SEX IN PUBLIC?

Who still has sex in public? Well, actually, quite a lot of people. Grindr may be on everyone’s phone but many gay men still get a thrill from jacking off or getting down and dirty in public. Is this your thing? Why or why not?

(UN)COMMITTED SEX…

Consensual sex between gay men happens all the time, so why are there so many lingering questions in the air when it comes time to hook up? How can we not respond to the awkward silence in some offhanded way, though it is hard to be blithe and whimsical when we’re attempting to vulnerable and…

AVOID THESE DEFINITE MOOD KILLERS WHILE SEXING VIA VIDEO

So all of us who aren’t living with our partners during this time have to live in a world like a couple of high school sweethearts who swore they’d make it work in college. We’re utilizing our phones by calling, texting, and even video chatting with one another. Of course, we’re keeping in touch for…

¿’TOP’ PRIVILEGE? LET’S TALK…

The top and bottom dichotomy is something we gay men are intimately aware of. It’s something that’s spawned a lot of biases and preconceived notions, some of which most gay guys believe in without thinking twice about it. Do you guys believe that tops enjoy privileges that bottoms don’t? Do you think that tops expect…

KEEPING YOUR CLOTHES ON DURING SEX…

I am the last person to knock nudity. We strip down to our birthday suit to do lots of important stuff: shower, use the restroom (kinda), get hot and heavy. But how about keeping your clothes on during sex (just a little bit)? Wouldn’t that heighten the excitement of eventual nakedness? Do you think the…