PORN, YOUR PARTNER & YOU…

  Do you consider watching porn as ‘cheating’ when in a relationship?  It’s cheating: I don’t want him looking at it It’s OK as long as we watch it together No, I don’t mind

THE ART OF HOOKING UP…

Perception versus reality: when it comes to the world of online dating — or more accurately, online hooking-up — one can often be vastly different than the other. With only a handful of pictures and words to get your message across and no real accountability, is it any wonder we live in the age of Catfish? How…

9 WAYS TO STAY SAFE ON GRINDR

You’re at home, pants wrapped around your ankles, sweat on your brow. You’re hunched over. Breathing hard. Every place you touch yourself feels incredible. Your whole body is telling you that your balls need to unload and doing it alone would be terrible, a waste, a crime against the amazing sex you know you could…

¿HAS OUR SEXUAL FREEDOM PREVENT IS FROM FINDING LOVE 💕?

When we lower the ceiling on the level of intimacies that we engage in, and even sexually experiment outside of our norm boundaries, are we in-turn setting our own trap? Once we’ve partook in casual sex in a bathhouse, group sex from Grindr, or entered the throbbing fetish scene, are we then hesitant to look…

GRINDR SHOULD HAVE LIBERATED US BUT…

Are you more of a chemsex or chamomile tea gay? Online it doesn’t matter because it’s easy to find every subculture and niche. In Consumables, two unlikely friends are brought together by the internet. But ultimately, are you going to find what you are really looking for?  Why does it seem that many of us…

¿COULD HAVING LESS SEX OPEN THE OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE BETTER SEX?

It just varies from partnership to partnership, and there is no ‘normal,’ there is no ‘should.’ Sex can serve a lot of different functions in a relationship. There are some couples that can go decades not engaging sexually with each other, and that’s fine. And there are other couples who, if they don’t have sex…

REVENGE PORN…

If you’ve ever sent a nude or a sext, you’re not alone. We’ve all done it – walked past the mirror after a shower, thought we looked mildly attractive, lighting is good, and we crack out our phones and snap a shot. In those fleeting moments of confidence we send it to a potential someone…

SPICING 🌶 UP YOUR SEX LIFE: ¿WHAT ARE YOUR TIPS?

It’s true that your sex life can become monotonous and boring if you keep doing the same thing over and over. The good news is that there are a lot of resources to help you expand your sexual repertoire. Like most things, sex is a skill and a little education goes a long way. What…

SEX & THE ‘HALF NIGHT STANDS’

We’ve all been in that situation where we had sex with a guy and then scurried out before he woke up. We always known it as a ‘Dick & Dash’, like a dine and dash, but you can’t get arrested.  So, is are our busy lives cutting our casual encounters short? Quite possibly. Although, there’s…

8 REASONS YOU ARE NOT HAVING SEX…

Does your relationship have to end up sexless? No! Not if you don’t want it to. But like most things, sustaining a healthy sexual relationship takes work. Let’s look at some of the reasons gay men stop having sex and what some possible solutions are. Couples stop having sex for different reasons. The reasons gay…