All it takes is a click or two and you could easily witness enough porn to last your entire life, but is that a good thing? This is a question that’s been debated for years, especially since the rise of YouTube-style XXX sites like PornHub. But even though this isn’t a new thing, the discussion…

Just curious, guys, is there anything you won’t do during sex? Is it scat? Eating before sex? Inflicting physical pain? Why do we refuse certain sex acts? Is it because we find it gross, humiliating, degrading, painful, dangerous, or scary? What are your limits in the bedroom? I believe we all have one. What’s your…

There’s no need to be ashamed about it; a lot of you guys are size queens and I am the last ones to judge. So that none of you guys end up confined in a hospital because a big dick ruptured something inside you, here are a few tips for you guys to keep in…

Age is but a number….OR IS IT? When older men are surfing for a playmate, he may encounter comments that seem rude or condescending, but sometimes can present a surprise, which can range from “interested” to “not interested.” If you are an older male seeking playmates many years younger, your success rate will never be as high as when you…

Yes, you read the headline correctly. Here we are, on a gay website, reading about why you shouldn’t necessarily sleep with someone on the first date. You haven’t accidentally stumbled onto the wrong website. I’m a gay man, presenting other gay men with the option to not have sex on the first date. This is a…

When you first met the man who is now your partner, neither of you expected anything beyond friendship and fun, despite your obvious attraction to each other. But you quickly developed a deep connection, and fell hard and fast for each other… which meant letting go of all of your sexual partners.  Even though it…

I think people are a bit immune to the burden of having safe sex, not liking condoms and getting horizontal with a sense of entitlement where people think: ‘it’s my right to have unsafe sex’. Why are so many content with living in a world of no consequences? Apparently as gay men, we’re even more…

Sex, something that affects every gay man. Something that’s so integral to our way of life it can impact relationships, change friendships and perhaps bring us closer to spiritual enlightenment. So when it comes to the top/bottom position, what makes a good bottom and what makes a good top? So tell me what do tops think…

What bottoms think tops want What do bottoms think is expected of them?  Douche like your life depends on it, and then douche some more. Most importantly, relax. It’s meant to be pleasurable, not a chore. To not dive on the “D” too quick? What gets a top off? What does a top really want…

I’ve been wondering about something for a while. Something that affects every gay man. Something that’s so integral to our way of life it can impact relationships, change friendships and perhaps bring us closer to spiritual enlightenment. I want to know: what makes a good bottom and what makes a good top?