¿OPEN RELATIONSHIP?: “THAT’S SOME WHITE PEOPLE SHIT”

So I saw an acquaintance of mine in the gym the other day while working out with my partner and the following message was sent to me later that day: Him: You look good btw Him: 😏 Me: Thanks Me: I guess Me: Talk about giving a gift with closed hands Me: 🤔 Him: You…

MY “COMING OUT” STORY

Life-changing moments don’t happen often but when they do they feel surreal and if you are like me who didn’t get a chance to “come out,” you know your world can fall. Looking back I guess I still wish that I had the opportunity to come out to my family, instead that option was taken…

QUITTING WORK @ 45

Forty five years is an arbitrary ‘menopause time’ for men. Life has more meaning than making money. It’s been said it’s harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In other words, serving two masters at the same time is like having…

BEING A WHORE MADE ME A BETTER PARTNER

I never knew what it was like to be free with my impulses. The years of suppression turned me into a dummy. I had zero skills. All that existed was the urging of sexual gratification, which had been denied to me my whole life. Love and intimacy was unfamiliar because all I wanted to have…

¿WHOSE ACCEPTANCE REALLY, REALLY, REALLY MATTERS?

I’ve spent the bulk of my life chasing after acceptance, and running the hell away from it once I had some. At the age of 28, it’s finally become clear to me that the acceptance most worth seeking is self-acceptance. ‏We’re born with a need for acceptance by the people who raise us through childhood….

TODAY IS MY EARTH~DAY!

So on this day I invite you to be present & embrace each and every moment that comes your way, I know I will!

¿CAN MY ONE ON ONE TIME HELP OR HURT MY RELATIONSHIP?

Let me just put this out there I really enjoy a good jack-off.  It’s not compulsive in any way, I just enjoy a bit of ‘me-time’.  I jack off about once a day and I pretty much always use porn to help me get off. I have sex too in a monogamous relationship of six…