So I saw an acquaintance of mine in the gym the other day while working out with my partner and the following message was sent to me later that day: Him: You look good btw Him: 😏 Me: Thanks Me: I guess Me: Talk about giving a gift with closed hands Me: 🤔 Him: You…
Category: THE 1 ME
MY “COMING OUT” STORY
Life-changing moments don’t happen often but when they do they feel surreal and if you are like me who didn’t get a chance to “come out,” you know your world can fall. Looking back I guess I still wish that I had the opportunity to come out to my family, instead that option was taken…
¡😃 🎁 🎊 HAPPY BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME 🎉 🎈 🎂!
Earth~Days should be celebrated by people who believe that U being born was truly a gift not by YOU believing YOU were a gift (think on it)!
HAPPY BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME 🎉 🎈 🎊 🎂 🎁 ❗️
Guess who’s turning 40 this today? ME❗️ Like every birthday – it’s a time of reflection. And especially with this “big one”, I’m feeling incredibly grateful for this fantastic community, and excited for the future itself!❗️ So, in celebration of this b-day milestone, I invite you to make this month the best month of your…
¡HAPPY BIRTHDAY…EARTH~DAY…BREATH~DAY TO ME!
I do my best to celebrate my birthday every day, not just once a year, because each breath is a gift, and every moment is a cause for celebration! So today I will make a special effort to enjoy & celebrate this breath-day! Oooh.. and there are CAKES!
THE GAY GAP YEAR…
A gap year is usually taken at the end of high school. Young people take a year off – the gap year – to pursue something non-education related. It’s usually travel. And it’s usually a means to buy some time, before having to make the next major life decision – study or work. Gay men, for a…
I DIDN’T RANT…
I keep reading that my blog entries about religion are rants. This would be troubling to me if I didn’t understanding, a rant is an explosive diatribe, a poorly articulated spewing of raw emotion. To successfully write a rant one would need to use a lot of foul language and a small army of exclamation…
QUITTING WORK @ 45
Forty five years is an arbitrary ‘menopause time’ for men. Life has more meaning than making money. It’s been said it’s harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In other words, serving two masters at the same time is like having…
BEING A WHORE MADE ME A BETTER PARTNER
I never knew what it was like to be free with my impulses. The years of suppression turned me into a dummy. I had zero skills. All that existed was the urging of sexual gratification, which had been denied to me my whole life. Love and intimacy was unfamiliar because all I wanted to have…
30 THINGS I’VE LEARNED ABOUT GAY RELATIONSHIPS WHILE BEING SINGLE…
Too often gay guys fall into a pit of depression and blame themselves for their singleness when the truth is, there is so much potential in it! The longer we appreciate this time, the better we’ll be in the long run when love comes knocking on our door. Here are a few things I’ve learned…
