MY “COMING OUT” STORY

Life-changing moments don’t happen often but when they do they feel surreal and if you are like me who didn’t get a chance to “come out,” you know your world can fall. Looking back I guess I still wish that I had the opportunity to come out to my family, instead that option was taken…

HAPPY BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME 🎉 🎈 🎊 🎂 🎁 ❗️

Guess who’s turning 40 this today? ME❗️ Like every birthday – it’s a time of reflection. And especially with this “big one”, I’m feeling incredibly grateful for this fantastic community, and excited for the future itself!❗️ So, in celebration of this b-day milestone, I invite you to make this month the best month of your…

¿OPEN RELATIONSHIP?: “THAT’S SOME WHITE PEOPLE SHIT”

So I saw an acquaintance of mine in the gym the other day while working out with my partner and the following message was sent to me later that day: Him: You look good btw Him: 😏 Me: Thanks Me: I guess Me: Talk about giving a gift with closed hands Me: 🤔 Him: You…

¡HAPPY BIRTHDAY…EARTH~DAY…BREATH~DAY TO ME!

I do my best to celebrate my birthday every day, not just once a year, because each breath is a gift, and every moment is a cause for celebration! So today I will make a special effort to enjoy & celebrate this breath-day! Oooh.. and there are CAKES!

THE GAY GAP YEAR…

A gap year is usually taken at the end of high school. Young people take a year off – the gap year – to pursue something non-education related. It’s usually travel. And it’s usually a means to buy some time, before having to make the next major life decision – study or work. Gay men, for a…

I DIDN’T RANT…

I keep reading that my blog entries about religion are rants. This would be troubling to me if I didn’t understanding, a rant is an explosive diatribe, a poorly articulated spewing of raw emotion. To successfully write a rant one would need to use a lot of foul language and a small army of exclamation…

QUITTING WORK @ 45

Forty five years is an arbitrary ‘menopause time’ for men. Life has more meaning than making money. It’s been said it’s harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In other words, serving two masters at the same time is like having…

BEING A WHORE MADE ME A BETTER PARTNER

I never knew what it was like to be free with my impulses. The years of suppression turned me into a dummy. I had zero skills. All that existed was the urging of sexual gratification, which had been denied to me my whole life. Love and intimacy was unfamiliar because all I wanted to have…