Life-changing moments don’t happen often but when they do they feel surreal and if you are like me who didn’t get a chance to “come out,” you know your world can fall. Looking back I guess I still wish that I had the opportunity to come out to my family, instead that option was taken…
Category: THE 1 ME
¡😃 🎁 🎊 HAPPY BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME 🎉 🎈 🎂!
Earth~Days should be celebrated by people who believe that U being born was truly a gift not by YOU believing YOU were a gift (think on it)!
HAPPY BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME 🎉 🎈 🎊 🎂 🎁 ❗️
Guess who’s turning 40 this today? ME❗️ Like every birthday – it’s a time of reflection. And especially with this “big one”, I’m feeling incredibly grateful for this fantastic community, and excited for the future itself!❗️ So, in celebration of this b-day milestone, I invite you to make this month the best month of your…
¿OPEN RELATIONSHIP?: “THAT’S SOME WHITE PEOPLE SHIT”
So I saw an acquaintance of mine in the gym the other day while working out with my partner and the following message was sent to me later that day: Him: You look good btw Him: 😏 Me: Thanks Me: I guess Me: Talk about giving a gift with closed hands Me: 🤔 Him: You…
¡HAPPY 39th BIRTH…EARTH…BREATH~DAY TO ME!
Live your own life with boldness and authenticity, and you add value to all of life. Expect the best for yourself, fulfill that expectation with honest, effective effort, and everyone benefits. Being bold does not mean being a brute. Boldly following your own desires does not require that you trample on the lives of others….
¡HAPPY BIRTHDAY…EARTH~DAY…BREATH~DAY TO ME!
I do my best to celebrate my birthday every day, not just once a year, because each breath is a gift, and every moment is a cause for celebration! So today I will make a special effort to enjoy & celebrate this breath-day! Oooh.. and there are CAKES!
THE GAY GAP YEAR…
A gap year is usually taken at the end of high school. Young people take a year off – the gap year – to pursue something non-education related. It’s usually travel. And it’s usually a means to buy some time, before having to make the next major life decision – study or work. Gay men, for a…
I DIDN’T RANT…
I keep reading that my blog entries about religion are rants. This would be troubling to me if I didn’t understanding, a rant is an explosive diatribe, a poorly articulated spewing of raw emotion. To successfully write a rant one would need to use a lot of foul language and a small army of exclamation…
QUITTING WORK @ 45
Forty five years is an arbitrary ‘menopause time’ for men. Life has more meaning than making money. It’s been said it’s harder for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven. In other words, serving two masters at the same time is like having…
BEING A WHORE MADE ME A BETTER PARTNER
I never knew what it was like to be free with my impulses. The years of suppression turned me into a dummy. I had zero skills. All that existed was the urging of sexual gratification, which had been denied to me my whole life. Love and intimacy was unfamiliar because all I wanted to have…
