RELATIONSHIPS & YOUR EXES…

Despite our… let’s call them varied experiences with dating, many of us never had conversations with our exes to understand where things went wrong. Now as a disclaimer, I’d like to acknowledge that, I know that everyone of your exes won’t be honest with you, but having this conversation can’t hurt nonetheless. Many of us…

¿THINKING ABOUT OPENING UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP? HERE ARE 5 THINGS TO CONSIDER

Open relationships, “don’t ask don’t tell” policies, or inviting a third into the bedroom to spice things up are not uncommon in same-sex partnerships. These things, while still considered taboo in much of the straight world, can really help a couple thrive without feeling they’re being forced into boxes that aren’t representative of who they are.  That…

6 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE ENTERING A THRUPLE

The French call it ménage à trois, the Germans – Dreiecksbeziehung, the Swedes – hushåll för tre, the Russians – любов втроём. Whatever you call this unorthodox romantic and domestic arrangement, you must be a hundred percent sure this type of cohabitation will work for you. If you have second thoughts, just don’t do it,…

¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…

RELATIONSHIPS: BAD TIMING ¿OR? NOT MEANT TO BE…

People always come up with reasons why a relationship or love fails. People want there to be something beyond their control, which they can complain about with their friends over cocktails, as to why their big love just fizzled out in the end. People want the romantic story, the drama of it all, the tortured…

10 WAYS NON-MONOGAMY CAN MAKE YOU A BETTER PARTNER

In our community and many others, the typical relationship narrative goes like this: You date around a little, eventually finding one true soul mate, the one person you’ll grow old with, maybe raise children with, and the one and only person you’ll have sex with. But there are a lot of people who don’t subscribe to this…

(COM)PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIPS…

Most of us have experienced that crazy, out of control feeling at the beginning of a new romance. Our heart races, we feel a rush of adrenaline, and all we want to do is be with that person. This is known as passionate love and it feels wonderful and exciting. But here’s the truth: Studies…

10 WORRIES THAT DISAPPEAR WHEN YOU FIND THE “ONE”

We have so many worries today, and I guarantee you most of them have to do with our self-worth. It’s easy to make everything personal, especially when we’re always comparing ourselves to others. But when that special man comes, he changes everything. It’s as if he stops the universe from expanding, and pulls us close…

¿WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER?

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. So tell me what are the things that tell you, ‘oh this relationship is done?’