THE POWER OF UNION…

In partnership and relationship we harness the power of union. The purpose of partnership is to create something greater than we can create alone. Not because of any deficiency or incompleteness in us, but because each of us is unique, with our own talents and abilities, and in partnership we increase the efforts and talents…

16 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

Not to start on a downer, but when you are dying, you will not remember the hours at the office or the many shoes you bought. You will remember the relationships — good, bad, and ugly — that sparked through your life. They are the most frustrating part of living, and they are absolutely what…

CHOOSING TO SINGLE OR HAVE A PARTNER…

Being single or in a being relationship are both valid options for living life and one is not better than the other. The way we choose to love can be as unique as the way we choose to make a living, maintain our health, or entertain ourselves. Some choose to seek out a mate and…

GAY MEN, MONOGAMY & THE LURE OF OPEN RELATIONSHIPS…

For centuries, heterosexual people have defined what relationships are. It started out as a type of possession: “I own you.” Hardly anchored in love, was it? And yet, this is the model that most of the human race has embraced for hundreds of years. Only in the last century or so has marriage begun to…

CHEATING: ¿WHAT SIGNS DO YOU LOOK FOR?

One of the worst feelings in the world is to think your partner might be cheating on you. If you’re convinced, or, need some sort of proof, you might want to work with a professional to get some support and advice. If, however, you’re still in the “I’m not sure, maybe they’re cheating?” how do…

16 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

Not to start on a downer, but when you are dying, you will not remember the hours at the office or the many shoes you bought. You will remember the relationships — good, bad, and ugly — that sparked through your life. They are the most frustrating part of living, and they are absolutely what…

KNOWING WHEN TO LET HIM GO…

Knowing when to end a relationship and acknowledging that the pain will pass can often prevent greater pain in the long run. Just as a good relationship can have a positive impact on your life, stressful, draining, or imbalanced relationships can have negative effects on your health and well-being. It’s common to maintain a relationship…

¿CAN YOU BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ASEXUAL PARTNER?

Everyone in the queer community knows it’s not easy to be different. It’s more than who we love or how we identify. It’s about how we look, what we wear, what labels we identify as and just generally if we fit into society’s rules. Even in the midst of the LGBTQ alphabet soup, one group…

RELATIONSHIP BREAKS: ¿CAN THEY WORK?

When a relationship has started to lose its spark, you have several options: Stay, split or take a break. Some think breaks are a controversial topic, suggesting they’re a cowardly way out of breaking up with someone when it’s obvious that your relationship isn’t working. Others believe stepping away is the only way to potentially…

IS IT WORTH IT STAYING FRIENDS WITH AN EX?

Is it worth it staying friends with an ex? is a question typically asked by anyone in the midst of a breakup, and unfortunately, it’s never an easy one to answer.  Remaining friends with someone you shared a life with can inhibit your ability to move on to a meaningful and compatible relationship with someone…