¿CAN CHEATING BE HEALTHY FOR A RELATIONSHIP?

When it comes to trust, cheating is like a bomb that goes off between your two-some. It destroys this core foundation that is needed for a successful relationship. The desire to have our beloved partner to ourselves is such a primal need that the breach of monogamy can inspire a level of hurt and rage…

RELATIONSHIPS: BAD TIMING ¿OR? NOT MEANT TO BE…

People always come up with reasons why a relationship or love fails. People want there to be something beyond their control, which they can complain about with their friends over cocktails, as to why their big love just fizzled out in the end. People want the romantic story, the drama of it all, the tortured…

10 WAYS NON-MONOGAMY CAN MAKE YOU A BETTER PARTNER

In our community and many others, the typical relationship narrative goes like this: You date around a little, eventually finding one true soul mate, the one person you’ll grow old with, maybe raise children with, and the one and only person you’ll have sex with. But there are a lot of people who don’t subscribe to this…

(COM)PASSIONATE RELATIONSHIPS…

Most of us have experienced that crazy, out of control feeling at the beginning of a new romance. Our heart races, we feel a rush of adrenaline, and all we want to do is be with that person. This is known as passionate love and it feels wonderful and exciting. But here’s the truth: Studies…

10 WORRIES THAT DISAPPEAR WHEN YOU FIND THE “ONE”

We have so many worries today, and I guarantee you most of them have to do with our self-worth. It’s easy to make everything personal, especially when we’re always comparing ourselves to others. But when that special man comes, he changes everything. It’s as if he stops the universe from expanding, and pulls us close…

¿WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER?

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. So tell me what are the things that tell you, ‘oh this relationship is done?’

¿WHAT IS YOUR LONGEST RELATIONSHIP?

Never had one Less than 1 month 1 month to 3 months 3 months to 6 months 6 months to 1 year 1 year to 2 years 2 years to 5 years 5 years to 10 years 10 years to 20 years 20 years to 40 years 40 years +  

NEW RELATIONSHIPS & CHRISTMAS GIFTS…

Christmas is about spending time with love ones and buying gifts, but what about that guy you just started dating? How long should you be dating someone before you buy him a gift for Christmas? Is this something reserved for only serious relationships, or would you do it because it is Christmas?

YOUR EX & THAT HOLIDAY FEELING…

The holidays are a time for delicious meals, catching up with your pops and getting berated with questions about your love life — it’s inevitable. And whether you’re with a partner this holiday season or celebrating solo, then perhaps there’s something on your mind — your ex. So, you send him or her a text. Maybe…

THE POWER OF UNION…

In partnership and relationship we harness the power of union. The purpose of partnership is to create something greater than we can create alone. Not because of any deficiency or incompleteness in us, but because each of us is unique, with our own talents and abilities, and in partnership we increase the efforts and talents…