🏳️‍🌈 OUR LIVES IS MORE THAN SEX 👬🏽

Why do straight people assume that as gay men that our lives revolve around sex & sex ALONE? How do we get rid of this gay-stereotype? Newsflash: There’s more to the life of a gay man than sex & our sexuality is not the be-all and end-all. How can it not occur to folks to…

👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨 ¿ARE GAY MEN INHERENTLY PROMISCUOUS? 🤔

Many people think that most gay men are promiscuous. So if you are gay, bi, or queer, do you believe yourself to be inherently promiscuous? It is a common misconception that gay males are inherently “promiscuous” mainly because of their gender preference or gender classification. There have been many theories that try to justify the supposed…

SEXUALITY GUILT & SHAME…

Sexuality is a taboo topic in our society because it is one of those primal forces which we consciously or unconsciously feel powerless to control. Deep down, we sense that it is connected to that unknown universal source of energy from which we came from and continue to exist within. The feeling of shame is…

🤨 ¿CAN A BLACK MAN EVER BE MORE THAN HIS D!@K? 🍆

Is it true what they say about black men  –  that we turn an ass out in bed? According to some of response I get about the images I share here, that seems to be a definitely. I love when a black man can be appreciated, but I can’t stop myself from cringing when I…

🍑 🍆 WHEN GAY PORN HAS US RETHINKING MASCULINITY… 💪🏽 😉

People will talk about gay culture in isolation, but it is based on interaction with, [and] recycling and appropriation of, aspects of the wider culture and it has undergone significant transformation over time, reflecting the social, cultural, and political environment of different eras. Evolving from the sexual revolution through the early days of the AIDS…

🧐 MAINSTREAM SEXUALITY 🏳️‍🌈

Being gay men in 2020 is a very different experience from that of 20 years ago. Politics aside, the mainstreaming of the queer identity has already informed so much of what we hear and see and with the mobility of technology not just in the advent of cruising devices but in the online experience as…