🤨 ¿CAN A BLACK MAN EVER BE MORE THAN HIS D!@K? 🍆

Is it true what they say about black men  –  that we turn an ass out in bed? According to some of response I get about the images I share here, that seems to be a definitely. I love when a black man can be appreciated, but I can’t stop myself from cringing when I…

🍑 🍆 WHEN GAY PORN HAS US RETHINKING MASCULINITY… 💪🏽 😉

People will talk about gay culture in isolation, but it is based on interaction with, [and] recycling and appropriation of, aspects of the wider culture and it has undergone significant transformation over time, reflecting the social, cultural, and political environment of different eras. Evolving from the sexual revolution through the early days of the AIDS…

🧐 MAINSTREAM SEXUALITY 🏳️‍🌈

Being gay men in 2020 is a very different experience from that of 20 years ago. Politics aside, the mainstreaming of the queer identity has already informed so much of what we hear and see and with the mobility of technology not just in the advent of cruising devices but in the online experience as…

GAY MEN 👨‍❤️‍👨 & SEXUAL 🍆 ROLES 🍑

I never really understood the term “the birds and the bees.” Apparently, it’s some important conversation mommy and daddy are supposed to have with you when they sit you down and explain to you the repercussions of having sex. Well, I’ve been having sex for quite some time now, and by the grace of God…

BISEXUALITY DAY

Today is Celebrate Bisexuality Day, a day that had its origins 30 years ago in 1990 when people met in San Francisco to discuss how people who are bisexual are often left out of discussions and celebrations about sexuality. More than 450 people attended from 20 U.S. states and 5 other countries, and the mayor…

WE SHOULD WORRY MORE ABOUT OUR MATURITY THAN OUR ‘MASCULINITY’

I don’t tend to expect enlightenment from gay hook-up apps, but I was struck by the words I read recently on one man’s profile. I was taught that a real man is someone who makes others feel comfortable in their presence. What an admirable quality to aim for: to make others feel comfortable and at ease…