🤔 WHY STRAIGHT GUYS FUCK EACH OTHER 👬🏽

“Str8 guy with blue balls here looking for another str8, masculine guy to jack off side by side. Str8 porn only!” We’ve all seen many such invitations written by supposedly straight men searching for quasi-homosexual adventures. When heterosexual chicks make out with one another at a party, it’s generally perceived as pushing the boundaries of…

💕 WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND ISN’T FULLY OUT 🙈

No one owes anyone an explanation about their sexuality, but dating someone who’s still in the closet makes not only their life complicated but also yours. If you happen to be in this situation, you’re probably already tired of sneaking around, being constantly shushed, and asked to “let go of my hand”. So, what to…

5️⃣ REASONS WHY WE LOVE MANLY BOTTOMS 💕

Oftentimes the beloved bottoms of the gay community get a bum wrap. The hard work and dedication to maintain an ass at supreme fucking-conditions is a serious undertaking. In addition to being slept on (pun-intended), bottoms are also often considered more feminine, dainty, or otherwise submissive to tops, who are stereotypically perceived the opposite. Masc…

🏳️‍🌈 A GAY MALE’S PERSPECTIVE ON REAL MEN DON’T CRY 😢

I’m sure that every gay man has heard the phrase “real men don’t cry” at one stage or another in their life—it’s a saying that is as old as time. What does this, ignoring the so-called weak emotions? It renders us almost incapable of dealing with emotional trauma, unable to express our emotions, or properly…

🤔 APPARENTLY, YOUR GAYDAR DOESN’T REALLY WORK 🕵🏽‍♂️

Sometimes, science just doesn’t know when to stop. Researchers at the University of Wisconsin-Madison say we may be negatively affecting the queer community when we use our gaydar.  Gaydar requires you to use social cues and stereotypes associated with gay men to determine a guy’s sexuality. In an interview with New Now Next writer Dan…

🏷 ¿DOES LABELS MAKE SEXUAL IDENTITY EASIER? 🆔

In some way having a label makes gay sex easier because everyone knows what to do. But the problem is that tops are almost always seen as more manly, virile, and aggressive, whereas bottoms are usually linked to effeminacy because we think they have a subservient position. Just don’t tell the power bottoms that. People…

🏷 LABELS & YOUR SEXUAL IDENTITY 🆔

Only in recent years has mainstream culture begun to understand and accept the different ways folks experience sexuality and gender. As conversations deepen around these subjects it’s only natural that new terms emerge. No matter how you identify, we should understand that sexuality isn’t a rigid category because what it looks and feels like varies…

🏳️‍🌈 OUR LIVES IS MORE THAN SEX 👬🏽

Why do straight people assume that as gay men that our lives revolve around sex & sex ALONE? How do we get rid of this gay-stereotype? Newsflash: There’s more to the life of a gay man than sex & our sexuality is not the be-all and end-all. How can it not occur to folks to…

👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨 ¿ARE GAY MEN INHERENTLY PROMISCUOUS? 🤔

Many people think that most gay men are promiscuous. So if you are gay, bi, or queer, do you believe yourself to be inherently promiscuous? It is a common misconception that gay males are inherently “promiscuous” mainly because of their gender preference or gender classification. There have been many theories that try to justify the supposed…