HELPING THE GAY COMMUNITY EVERYDAY…

We can all vow to make the gay community  a better place one day at a time by being our true authentic selves. Each of us is more than capable of helping the gay community, despite our fears and limitations and the uncertainty that holds us back. It is commonly accepted that it is impossible…

LETTING YOUR GAY LIFE UNFOLD…

Present time can be hard, but life unfolds as it will and the universe will wait as we make our way into the unknown. Our lives are guided by natural rhythms that are particular to each of us and cannot be altered by force of will alone. Life itself is a journey made up of…

WHERE YOUR GAY SOUL IS…

There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances. Your subconscious mind may be ready to move forward long before you recognize that you are destined to embrace your life. Your soul intuitively understands that changing habitats can be a vital part of the growth process and…

OWNING (Y)OUR TENDENCIES (UNDERSTANDING ALL THE GAY SIDES)

  Looking at only one side of our gay life can make us blind to the many other ways of looking at our situation. Whenever we examine our lives, we examine them from a particular side or angle. Most of us tend to favor one side over the others. For example, we may tend to…

WE’RE ALL IN THE SAME GAY BOAT…

We are all on this earth together learning and teaching together in many different ways. We’re all in the same gay boat. We just have different paddles, and perhaps we find ourselves on different rivers. We all live in human bodies. These are the vehicles in which we move through our world. We are all made…

OUR GAY LIGHT IS ALWAYS SHINING…

Remember the light. If darkness has fallen, we know that our light is still shining at this very moment somewhere not too far away. There are times when gloom or darkness causes us to momentarily lose sight of the light. Although it is at these times when the thought of the light can help us….

BEING YOUR OWN GAY VILLAGE…

Sometimes we need to be our own gay village and utilizing all of our skills and learning more. Simple survival requires us to be in possession of many skills. The pursuit of dreams requires many more. Most individuals rely on the support of a village, whether peopled by relatives or community members, to effectively address…

A LIFE OF LEARNING (THE GAY COMMUNITY)

The gay community provides us with an education of the heart and the soul. This life is the province of learning, and the wisdom we acquire throughout our lives is the reward of existence. As we traverse the winding roads that lead from birth to death, experience is our patient teacher. We exist, bound to…

BALANCING YOUR GAY SPIRIT…

When we recognize our gay self, we can exhibit strength without sacrificing tenderness. The human soul is dynamic, adapting readily to the changing conditions we encounter as time marches unerringly forward. Though we may use a single set of characteristics to define ourselves, we slip easily into contradictory roles when circumstances necessitate doing so. When…

THE BREATHE OF THE GAY COMMUNITY…

  We can connect ourselves with a basic force of our community by focusing on the essential element of our life force. We inhale the life-giving force, feeling it fill us, and then releasing it into the world to let the breath of the community mingle with the breath of the world. We can evoke…