SEEING OUR BEAUTIFUL QUEER SELVES…

Many of us do not take the time to notice and acknowledge how beautiful we are as same gender loving individuals. We may be great lovers of beauty, seeing it in the people, places, and things around us, while completely missing it in ourselves. Some of us feel that it is vain to consider our…

SEX IS AWESOME BUT…

Sex is awesome, however you like it. It’s always a good thing amongst consenting adults, (and whatever appropriately-sized objects we wish to include). I do think though, that sex can be complicated for gay men. We hid our desires from a sometimes judgemental and cruel world as teenagers. We feared rejection and torment for our…

WHEN WE DON’T TAKE ACTION BEYOND 🏳️‍🌈 PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Our actions shape our lives, but what we don’t take action on can be just as powerful. Life is sculpted on a moment-to-moment basis. Every one of the thoughts we think, the words we speak, and the actions we take contributes to the complex quality and character of the universe’s unfolding. It simply is not…

‘DRAG RACE: ALL STARS 5’ JUST REVEALED MAJOR TWISTS & JUDGES

Ahead of RuPaul Drag Race season 12’s finale episode, the franchise has released the latest news and first full trailer for All Stars 5 and boy is it a doozy. After teasing the suspension of All Stars rules in a prior clip, the show has laid it all out. But since there’s so much packed into one announcement, here…

RE-CREATING SAFE SEX…

There’s the rub. To engage in discussions about HIV and vulnerability means to have meaningful dialogue about sex and drug use. This is difficult in the world today. We have to do the work of defining the ways that we are comfortable with sex and substance use and vulnerability, by ourselves and with another person….