SEX IS AWESOME BUT…

Sex is awesome, however you like it. It’s always a good thing amongst consenting adults, (and whatever appropriately-sized objects we wish to include). I do think though, that sex can be complicated for gay men. We hid our desires from a sometimes judgemental and cruel world as teenagers. We feared rejection and torment for our…

WHEN WE DON’T TAKE ACTION BEYOND 🏳️‍🌈 PRIDE 🏳️‍🌈

Our actions shape our lives, but what we don’t take action on can be just as powerful. Life is sculpted on a moment-to-moment basis. Every one of the thoughts we think, the words we speak, and the actions we take contributes to the complex quality and character of the universe’s unfolding. It simply is not…

‘DRAG RACE: ALL STARS 5’ JUST REVEALED MAJOR TWISTS & JUDGES

Ahead of RuPaul Drag Race season 12’s finale episode, the franchise has released the latest news and first full trailer for All Stars 5 and boy is it a doozy. After teasing the suspension of All Stars rules in a prior clip, the show has laid it all out. But since there’s so much packed into one announcement, here…

RE-CREATING SAFE SEX…

There’s the rub. To engage in discussions about HIV and vulnerability means to have meaningful dialogue about sex and drug use. This is difficult in the world today. We have to do the work of defining the ways that we are comfortable with sex and substance use and vulnerability, by ourselves and with another person….

TRANS WOMAN NINA POP STABBED TO DEATH IN MISSOURI

Transgender woman Nina Pop was stabbed to death in Sikeston, Mo., over the weekend, making her at least the 10th trans person to die by violence in the U.S. this year. Pop’s body was found Sunday night in her apartment in the town of about 16,000, 145 miles south of St. Louis, the Associated Press reports. No…

ANGEL STAR J. AUGUST RICHARDS COMES OUT AS GAY

“I knew how important it is to other people out there like me, who would need to see that role model.” J. August Richards has come out as gay. The actor, who is best known for his role as Charles Gunn on the Buffy the Vampire Slayer spin-off Angel, publicly spoke about his sexuality for…

16 SIGNS YOUR GAY RELATIONSHIP IS OVER…

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. You will see that cheating is not on this list — I do not see it as a terminal sign. If my guy gets drunk and bangs someone in the back of a club, I…

D!CK PICS…🍆

Are your dick pics getting him into your bed? Many gay men aren’t getting hard over dick pics. Are you one of those men? Do you drool over a dick pic or do say no thanks and keep it moving?