THE 12th GAY OF X-MAS 🌲: FINALLY LETTING GO 🤲🏽

If someone had told me that a year ago, I would have been thoroughly convinced that our time wasn’t up yet. I would have been deluded about how toxic you were to me and believed all that you did were for my own good. I would have argued and fought with anyone that tried to…

THE 11th GAY OF X-MAS🎄: TURNING THE HARD LESSON INTO CELEBRATIONS 🥳

Whether we initially jump to remember our successes or failures, we should take stock of both the high and low points. The successes and failures allow us to connect with our emotions and deeper learning from those experiences. Though the triumphs prompt us to feel more celebratory towards what we’ve accomplished, we can also train…

THE 9th GAY OF X-MAS 🌲: THE GIFT 🎁 OF DREAMS & IMAGINATION 💭

Today we’re going to finally own what our wildest dreams are because if we don’t own them, they have no way of coming to fruition.  As children we we’re able to play pretend, imagine amazing things, and proclaim what we wanted to be when we grew up without any hesitation. However, as we mature, take…

THE 7th GAY OF X-MAS🌲 : THE GIFT OF KNOWING YOUR SOUL 🤲🏽

There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances.  There will likely be times in your life when your soul evolves more quickly than your circumstances. Your subconscious mind may be ready to move forward long before you recognize that you are destined to embrace a new…

THE 6th GAY OF X-MAS 🌲: THE GIFT OF COMMUNITY 👊🏽

There’s something incredibly important about having people in your life, which you can go to for advice when it comes to things in both your personal and professional life. A community offers years of wisdom, knowledge, and guidance to share with you, which will undoubtedly help guide you in making smart and informed decisions. They’ve…

THE 5th GAY OF X-MAS 🌲: OPENNESS 🤲🏽

Although not everyone meets our expectations or ideals, nor is everyone the picture perfect sexual fantasy of our dreams, we must learn to look beyond the physical appearance of those who come into our lives and look at the heart, soul, and mind of a person. Open your mind, open your soul, open your heart, and give…

THE 4th GAY OF X-MAS 🌲: MARRY 👬 YOURSELF 🤗

I know this isn’t new but hear me out…This is about completely honoring and loving ourselves. We’ve need to have honest conversations with ourselves, pushed ourselves to try new things, and to take a really long look in the mirror. We need to do this because we need to get out of our own way,…

THE 3rd GAY OF X-MAS 🌲 : THE GIFT 🎁 OF ORDER & SPACE 😌

We want to continue to make our living environments feel as zen as possible, and add to our overall feeling of peace and joy, which is life’s ultimate success. So, take a critical look at the things we have surrounding us, and declutter. Today remove some of the excess from our lives. By removing outdated,…