WITH COVID-19 DISRUPTING EVERYTHING…

With the coronavirus outbreak dominating the news, causing widespread cancellations and postponements, it’s pretty hard to avoid hearing about it. In these uncertain times, it makes sense that people are looking for distractions. Unsurprisingly, one of the most popular ways to kill time for single people in 2020 is using dating apps. But while you swipe…

THE SEX INTERVIEW BEFORE THE FIRST DATE…

Living in a world where our intimacy boundaries are being pushed and us turning the intimacy tables, do this sex before a date with someone is too much or makes a lot sense? Many of us used to think of sex as you crossed the line now you are in an intimate zone, but now…

🍆 IT’S ALL ABOUT THE ‘BBC’ 🍆

Size generally matters in the gay meat market, regardless of racial considerations, but when the curiosity and expectations so often attached to dark meat raises the ick factor, how does one determine their level of grotesque? Why are gay black men objectified so much? Ask most gay black men and they’d tell you how they…

16 SIGNS YOUR GAY RELATIONSHIP IS OVER…

Gay relationships are a different ballgame than straight ones. We live in an oversexed culture. We play by different rules. You will see that cheating is not on this list — I do not see it as a terminal sign. If my guy gets drunk and bangs someone in the back of a club, I…

RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE: SEASON 12, EPISODE 4 – “THE BALL BALL”

As we gather to watch and discuss this week’s Drag Race from our homes, let’s not forget all the LGBTQ entertainers, bartenders and nightlife staff that are already being hit hard. If you can, order a T-shirt, buy a gift certificate and contribute to bars’ online fundraisers so we have places we can go back…

REALLY LIVING WITHIN THE GAY COMMUNITY…

When we continually live our life with a safety net it creates a barrier to our freedom. As we create the life of our dreams, we often reach a crossroads where the choices seem to involve the risk of facing the unknown versus the safety and comfort of all that we have come to trust….